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Why people think there is a difference in seeing a women in their underwear vs swimwear. Sometimes the underwear maybe more covering than the swimwear but still people think its not good when seen in underwear. Why is this? What's the difference there and do women go to beaches in the micro minis that are advertised?
My husband doesn’t permit me to wear underwear or swimming costumes/bikinis. When we go to the beach I just wear a sarong. I have to be topless unless it is not permitted on that particular beach and if it is secluded enough or generally permitted I must be fully naked. On holiday my husband will always aim to seek out a beach where full nudity is permitted.
When your underwear gets wet theres no hiding what's inside them, esp white ones. Swimwear is thicker, and made to hide the nipples, the pubic area. And well even tho they are shaped or styled the same people tend to be embarrassed to go outside in "underwear".
He says it’s about humiliation. He believes it’s healthy for a woman to be humiliated by their man from time to time, it’s a good way to remind us of our status in life. The fact it is also a huge turn on for him is an added bonus.
He loves to have me naked in public, for him it’s a massive turn on. He also loves the power trip of knowing that although I am uncomfortable with it I would not dare go against his wishes.
It is psychological. Like you said, there is swimwear, bikinis that are way more revealing than underwear. The bikini is really not that old, I think it started in 1946. Watch videos of women at the beach 100 years ago and they are wearing full coverage one piece suits. Going to the beach now, girls wearing bikinis are basically naked.
Most swimwear isn't gonna be transparent when it gets wet, and a lot of underwear is white which tends to be completely transparent when it gets wet.