Disappearing

i really have this feeling to disappear and start life somewhere else but i really can not do it because i don't have guts to do it .

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Based on 104 votes (89 yes)
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  • BlooSheap

    LETS DO IT TOGETHER

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  • lefthandedleo

    I had the idea to do this too, but I'm not sure how normal this is. It's not that I don't have the guts, it's just not good timing. After finishing college, saving a lot of money, and other things, I will most likely change my name and move to somewhere new. A fresh start... I understand the passion.

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  • Christoph

    we can make our own little village out of branches in the woods of russia, and eat apples and berries, and make houses from wood, and our own lil village, come on .. it will be amazing, im deadly serious.

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    • deepthought33

      Wow what a challenge. Sounds amazing! Who would I be after an experience like THAT?

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  • deepthought33

    Me too. I have a toddler though and I use him and money as an excuse. I know people have done crazier things with a child on their back. Sometimes i think that if a portal to another universe would open up right in front of me no one would ever hear from me again because I'd be out of here.

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  • blondie28

    I just told my b/f that the other day! I wish I had the balls to do it! Maybe one day!

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  • spncrgmn

    Sometimes people move because they think that the place makes them feel bad, but they feel bad no matter where they go because the problem is that they still have to live with themselves.

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  • BADMAN!

    Mate, man up and give it a go. I was working in London and I recently moved out to Thailand. One of the best things I've ever done. The other best thing was sailing across the atlantic with guy I met in the pub. These are things that make life worth living. I only regret the things I didn't do, never the things I have done.

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  • TAK11

    life is wonderful , its just we suck alot

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  • 4w04se

    I think of it EVERY DAY!

    think I just need a change .. Life gets boring

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  • PoisonFlowers

    "i would be doing things as i want and not as other people around me wants. it will make me to be totally independent or something like that."

    Yeah. That's why I don't want it to stay a pipe dream. I want it for real. I'm under no illusions - I know it will be hard, but I still want to do it.

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    • TAK11

      hope you do it!

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  • mtnw

    i think it's a common daydream. it's normal. maybe it's time for all of us to start something new in our lives.

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  • dwe

    I feel the same way, but the question is what makes you think you will be happier somewhere else?
    What would you be doing different there? I am not sure I know those answers for me either.

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    • TAK11

      good questions dwe.
      for me, well surly i will be happier, because just by seen people around me i get sick. so if i see new people it will be better for the first time at least.
      i would be doing things as i want and not as other people around me wants. it will make me to be totally independent or something like that.

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  • ComboBreaker

    I dont have the guts either.

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  • vintagebeauty224

    thats normal, sometimes i wonder what it would be like to become invisable just for a day so i could see what evryone does when im not in the room. that would acually be a pretty cool superpower lol, if we had any.

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    • TAK11

      ya it would be nice if we had superpowers hhh.

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  • soulflyer9

    don't think of it as escaping. think of it as an adventure, or a journey to finding a place where you feel comfortable enough to stay.

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  • PoisonFlowers

    What are you afraid of? What are you trying to escape/build?

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    • TAK11

      i don't know , or i am not sure or i don't admit it and also i feel bad to say it i don't know why. it sucks.

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      • PoisonFlowers

        A lot of people feel the same way. Even when I was young, I felt it, and I wasn't even sure why. It's something that's hard to express.

        Sometimes, people feel like going far away and starting over because of some problems in their lives that they want to escape. However, the sort of feeling that I'm talking about isn't necessarily to do with that, it's to do with hmm...just wanting to get out and doing something on your own terms for once maybe. As I said, it's hard to express.

        Is this similar to the way you feel? You know what, maybe you should do it. People have done in the past and are doing so right now, all with their own reasons. But like anything, you've gotta know how to go about it. If you really want to do it, then I'm sure you'll figure it out yourself.

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        • TAK11

          its the way you said,besides feeling lost most of the time and not knowing what to do and feeling like being trapped . i think i will never be able to go for it. but dose not matter with time things will change i hope!

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