Do asexual's get horney?
And if so, what would they think about when they rub one out?
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No | 91 | |
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And if so, what would they think about when they rub one out?
Yes | 221 | |
No | 91 | |
I don't know but I want to see the poll results. | 626 |
No, because if you get horny there must be an object of that affection, a desire for sexual stimulation and therefore a sex drive. A sex drive equals attraction to something in order for the drive to be active. So not asexual.
People who say they aren't attracted to anything yet get horny are not asexual, just "sexually immature" lacking correct sexual development. Very common.
That is not true at all. You are saying that it does not feel good to touch yourself. Some people do not get turned on by thinking of sex. They just touch themselves. The two are not always intertwined. So That is completely false. That means if you touch someone in there privates they will feel nothing unless they are thinking about sex. I highly doubt you can prove that as a actual fact and I am sure many will argue that.
"That means if you touch someone in there privates they will feel nothing unless they are thinking about sex"
No, that's what it means to you and your very limited understanding of sexual and mental functions and their connection.
The two are always intertwined, it's not a conscious thought. That's how the sex drive works.
What you stated is an opinion, what I stated is a fact, taught to you if you study sexual development.
Go to school, learn.
No they are not. So you are saying if you are toached in a private area and you are not thinking of sex you feel absolutly nothing? If you are either you done it too many times or you have a nerve issue. This is a simple fact why they invented the game "Nervoues". Certien parts of the body are more sensitive. So "Inner thigh" and a "Females boobs" to the "Spine" and the "Neck"also the "bottom of feet" to the "shoulders and around the chest area" and of course our "Private/Crotch". You do not have to be a Biologist to understand this. I am sorry you know nothing about the sensitivity of people but this is a very simple fact. You do not sound like you had any schooling at all if you never learned how nerves work. That is called "Biology" did you ever take the class? Are you honestly that dumb?
I'm asexual and I don't get horny. Sometimes I feel like I'm missing out on something but then again I don't find touching someone's privates any more interesting than touching their arms or whatever is the body part you find the least interesting.
Thanks for sharing.
So there is no sexual attraction to anything and you don't get randomly horney? Not even in your teens?
I have to say it sounds like it would make life so much simpler.
I do not think it would. Even if it makes things easier. Do you think those people do not feel bad looking outside at the world and no one understanding why they have no desire for sex. I would think they look at themselves as freaks in a lot of cases. Sex is everywhere. If 90% of people are doing it or wanting it I think the one that will not and will not want it is going to feel left out.
Nope, I've never felt like touching myself in 'exciting' places (or anyone else for that matter). It may have to do with the fact that I've been suffering from major depression basically throughout my teens, which was most likely genetic, so it might be a hormonal thing. Maybe the fact that I never really developed any kind of sexuality could be the reason why I don't ever get horny now, but I guess you'd have to research into this further to get definite answers.
The one who I know says he doesn't get horny. I guess it depends on the cause of the individuals asexuality. If it's a biological cause - a lack of a certain hormone or chemical in the body - then it makes sense that they wouldn't get erections or get wet because the innate drive for sex requires certain hormones. If it was caused by something non-biological then they might get horny but have some sort of psychological block from having sex, or not be attracted to humans but something else and never come into contact with the object that arouses them. Just brainstorming :P
What I don't know is if most asexuals get inexplicable erections when they wake up in the morning or not. I don't want to swamp my one asexual friend with a million questions about it :P
Some do, some don't. It looks like there are a lot of myths about sexuality getting passed around, so here's a guide that uses analogies to explain different types of asexuality: http://demisexuality.tumblr.com/post/21067993174/food-analogies-to-explain-asexual-attitudes-toward-sex
Kind of interesting, although a little misleading with this part -
"The Kinky Asexual Who Only Does Sexual Things in Connection to Their Kink"
That's not asexuality, that's sexual specialism. Using the food analogy, it's like how a Koala bear subsists almost solely on eucalyptus leaves. That's all they're interested in eating. A person who is only interested in satisfying their paraphilia is not asexual.
Ok these explanations are horrible. I did not understand the food metaphor at all it would have made more sense just explaining what they are and are not sexually attracted to.
Asexuals by definition lack interest in sex and aren't sexually attracted to others (or themselves).
That means they typically don't feel horny, nor have any urge to masturbate.
As an asexual, I'd have to say that you're wrong, since being sexually attracted to someone and getting aroused are two different things (arousal can happen due to exposure to certain stimuli and/or the reaction to one's hormones). Therefore some asexuals do masturbate and some don't. Although I don't get sexually and romantically attracted to people, I do have certain days when I have to masturbate due to my raging hormones. But to me, it's just another chore in my book. I don't get any "kick" from it whatsoever.
If you don't mind me asking, what do you think about while performing this chore?
I don't really have a specific thought or thing in my mind. But I can assure you that it's usually nothing sexual. My mind is usually blank, when I masturbate. It'll only take me a couple of seconds (yes seconds) and, the urge would hardly ever rise up again. I know that the urges would only rise every couple of months during my "ovulating" period (tmi, sorry). But even during those times, I'm still not sexually attracted to people. Therefore, I know that it's just my hormones messing about and making my body react a certain way.
I gues maybe they would think of themselves?
I don't really know. Now you have me all fucked up in the mind!
This is an old post, but I can't let so many ignorant comments go unaccompanied by a legitimate one!
So, asexuality, like most things, is on a spectrum. On one end you have GREYSEXUALS, who do fluctuate between sometimes experiencing sexual attraction, but not often or may only feel sexual attraction in very specific circumstances. On the other end you have APOTHISEXUALS who are 'sex repulsed. When most people think asexual they generally think of apothisexuals who never experience any form of attraction and are actively repulsed by sex. Most asexuals fall in the middle. This is where you have other subgroups of asexuals, such as Demisexuals, Lithrosexuals, Cupiosexuals, etc.
Now about arousal, or getting 'horney' as the questioner puts it. Yes some asexuals get aroused WHICH IS TOTALLY NORMAL and in no way invalidates their asexuality, but some do not, which is also fine. Asexuality means you have no sexual attraction TOWARDS any being or gender. This is not the same thing as experiencing sexual arousal which is a purely physical thing. You could compare it to teenage boys getting erections at inopportune moments without having being doing or thinking about anything particularly sexual. People get aroused, it happens, regardless if you're trying to or not.
So asexuals can get horney and they can masturbate. Some do not, some do. For some asexuals masturbation is an emotionless act, like brushing one's teeth, or jogging, done merely to expel sexual energy or frustration. For others it involves fantasies or eleven pornography. This may seem very non-ayeual but let me explain. Many asexuals say they do have sexual urges, even sexual fantasies, but that they are not directed at any person/people and that they have no urge to have sex themselves. Asexuals generally talk about their fantasies as being from a. third person point of you, observing the events instead of being directly involved. The individuals performing sexual acts may be characters, vague representations of males or females, celebrities, or even people the asexual knows, though this is rarely the case. The sexual feelings are sort of felt vicariously through these personas who do experience sexual attraction, though at no point does the asexual wish these sexual acts were being to or by them. An odd concept I know, but let me assure you it is true. Asexuals, such as myself, experienced being 'turned-off' by the thought of themselves in sexual scenarios, but other people or characters are fine.
I think there are many misconceptions about asexuality. It doesn't mean a person has no sexual urges, only that they are not directed at anyone. It does not mean a person does not masturbate, only that they have no desire to engage in sexual acts with another person. Not all asexuals are sex-repulsed, and may even have sex out of curiosity or to compare the experience to their own assumptions of what it is like. We have no urge or desire to have sex, doesn't mean we don't have all the parts producing the same hormones in our bodies.
Whelp, one poor asexual being traumatised by the above comments might one day see this and be comforted. suppose that is justification enough for this long-ass comment of a five year old post.
I am aesexual. I was born tha way. There is a difference between people who claim to be aesexual and people who actually are. An aesexual human is born with no genetals. Like no testicals, no penis, no vagina. The only thing a human aesexual is born with is pee hole opening that looks like a vagina but doesn't work like one eg; no clit or g spot. It is simply there as an opening to give birth through.
I don't get horney. It would be kind of pointless if I did because I wouldn't be able to do anything about it considering aesexuals don't have external genetals. The thing about aesexuals is none of them have external junk but they can be born and look like a male to everyone or be born and look like a women to everyone. Eg I was born as a male aesexual so I have the body of a normal guy except for the fact I can get myself pregnant. A femal aesexual looks like what any other woman looks like, boobs and everything but going down on her or having sex would be pleasureless for her if she was aesexual. She would also be able to get herself pregnant.
And to clear it up aesexuals can feel attraction just like any normal human being. Just because they are aesexual doesn't mean they are impervious to normal human emotions like love anger and sadness.
As a side note it isn't natural for a human to be born aesexual so it is actual hard for them to get themselves pregnant. If they did succeed the child would be an exact double of them.
How can a asexual be horney? They are not attracted to any sex ( It must feel bad)
i say yes.
just because they're not always interested in sex doesn't mean their bodies won't respond sometimes.
if they masturbate to ease the tension, who knows. maybe. but it's also possible they just ignore it too... after all that works for people who are sexual, so why wouldn't it work for asexual people as well?
Aesexuals don't have anything to masterbate with. Aesexuals genetals are inside their body and can get themselves pregnant.
Except that some asexual people HAVE genitals.
You're thinking of people who are physically asexual while I'm talking about people who are mentally asexual.
http://mw1.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/asexual
both versions are accurate.
the lack of sexual organs may apply to you personally as you state below, but that doesn't mean your condition applies to everyone who claims to be asexual.
Asexual means no sex drive. My cousin is asexual and she has never wanted sex in her life, nor does she ever want to have sex... Ha
My ex claims she's asexual, but I think she means she can take or leave sex.
She's on the Pill and seems to have some other genetic health problem and masturbates a few times a year.
She has no physical attraction towards anyone
I know someone who is asexual and he doesn't get horny but he pleases his GF. He's completely not up for sex though but he does want kids so if they take it to the next level, I suspect they'll have to start doing something!
I've heard that some do but I would think they aren't truly asexual then. They say they masturbate to themselves, I guess that means they are only doing it for their pleasure, they wouldn't do it to anything in particular...
I would guess so. I'm not familiar with the biological mechanisms of asexuals.
No true asexuals don't get turned on by the thought of others. Some asexuals get off on themselves so they master-bate.
"True asexuals"? Some asexual people experience sexual attraction, but only occasionally.
Is this really a thing? I did not think it was possible to be asexual. I think I may be. They have a flag! I must document this.
What? If they feel sexual attraction then their not asexual. Wouldn't that make them demisexual? Sometimes I feel that way.
Aesexual don't have external genetals. They can't mastorbate because there is nothing to masterbate with. And they do feel every normal human feelin and emotion. Just not being horny.