Do femme women generally feel more attracted to tom boys/ masc?

Seems to me you're going about this wrong. Your questions about how you dress are all focused on how others will perceive you. You should wear whatever feels right to you and that in itself should give you confidence, which is way more attractive that just a look where the clothes wear you instead of the other way around.

Hmmm interesting and thanks very much :)

In my experience yes, but ive had friends in relationships where theyre both femme tomboys. However you might want to ask yourself if youre trying to attract a girlfriend or a hook up

You do you, just as long as you don't pretend like you served in the army, just cause you bought some mil-spec clothes. Have respect for the men and women in the military.

Also present yourself the way you are. For a proper relationship you want someone to fall in love with the real you. I've had my fair share of pretending I'm more than the real me back in my late teens. Great way to get laid, but not ideal for more serious relationships. Keep it real.