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Just wondering this since I'm a nice person but find it hard to keep confident and need to know if girls like it when guys are nice, and respectful or guys who are a bit douchy.
My opinion of what type of men women find attractive is to look at the "heart throbs" in media they pine over.
From that it has always seemed to be the case that women like men that assert themselves over other men, even disrespectfully but in a well-composed manner yet wouldn't display that same behaviour towards the woman themselves.
It is what it is, and I personally find it disgusting when women try to convince men otherwise because essentially what they're doing is motivating men into being the type of man they would never truly want to date.
I hate the types of ones who put others down and think they are better than other people.
Yeah we do generally like nice guys but by that we mean REAL nice guys, not those fakers who go around repeating how nice they are (overcompensation for not actually being nice). And the common reason for why some of those guys get friendzoned is they're too shy about feelings, they dont flirt and show any interest they just act like a friend. It then gets easy to just start viewing them that way.
I think that majority of dudes play the “nice guy card” and most are cunts.
I don’t hear too many chicks claiming to be kind.
Friendzone literally only exists when the guy is only maintaining the friendship hoping she'll "realize he's the one" or something one day.
It's painful to see nice accomplished guys ending up with slutty women, and yes, it happens quite often.
A nice guy is kinda broad. Nice how?
You have a nice guy.. but shy
You have a nice guy.. but can be annoying
You have a nice guy.. but insecure
You have a nice guy.. but something about him can be off
Etc
There are different types of "nice guy
Depends on the person. Some want an overly nice guy, some can’t stand them, others are in between.
There is that old saying, Nice guys finish last. There is some truth to that as well. If I was hiring a person to run my business I guess I'm going to pick the egotistical, douchebag, ass. They will work their ass off to prove they are the best and hate to fail. Don't get in their way they will step on who ever they need to succeed. Unfortunately because they are so successful is why they have luck in the relationship area. Fortunately there are a few that are nice when taken out of the environment. You know tiger on the street pussy cat in the sheets, opposite of the guys dream of angel on the street hooker in the sheets.
Let's be honest. People (not just girls) like people who have a good mix of qualities. The right amount of nice mixed in with some douche to keep things interesting. If you have no backbone you'll only attract insecure people.
Theres a difference between being a nice guy... and being a nice guy.
The key difference is consistency. Are you being nice only for this girl or is being nice just something you do on the regular.
I'm a nice guy, I treat everyone irl with respect and kindness.
I hate douchebags! The thing with douchebags is that they have a tendency to put on an act, and pretend to be a nice person, but eventually their mask starts to slip away. Narcissistic abusers are very superficially charming, and they have a tendency to love bomb people in the beginning, that's how they get their victims hooked on their lies, and bullshit.
NEVER seek to be a douchebag! Be a decent, and good person. If someone doesn't like you for who you are then brush the dust off your feet, and just leave. Don't let anyone treat you badly, and don't treat anyone else badly either. Concentrate your efforts on being a good person!