Do i give off gay vibes?
So every time I go out to eat at a resturuant or drink at a bar I get approached by someone. However, its always the same sex that seems to be approaching me. Since I have 0 social skills when sober, I feel like I might be coming across as rude or very awkward. I work in customer service and spent most of my life in sales or things which are business related. So I am great with customers, I just not sure how to behave with anything that is not a person I am attempting to sell a product to. Am I actively giving off gay vibes with my mannerisms and styles? I only ask this since I had an old boss who is retired who has been hiring me to do lawn work who keeps saying "None heteronormative" my style seems to be. Like "Only gays wear thier keys like this, or only gays wear piercing's like this, only gays style thier hair this or that way, only gays wear the sort of hats you do".