Do i have a panty sniffing parent, should i be worried?

On more then one occasion after having left my clothing in the bathroom hamper I have later returned to find that my unmentionables have been moved or unfolded usually with the gusset left exposed to the air. the reason I think my father may be doing something perverse with them is, I don't leave my unmentionables visible, not ever, I fold them and tuck them away clothing waded around them to conceal them.

my question is, is this a more common situation among families?

I have been researching this and many signs seem to point to this panty sniffing being a common masturbatory aid for many males family or otherwise, in fact, it seems this sort of thing usually begins within the family though by a sibling.. not a parent.

I think this is something that has only recently started , either that or he's been very careful up until now.

I live alone with my father, permanently disabled, spending my life in a bed I am 23 years of age.

My tummy feels cold and hot all over writing this, but I just needed to get some answers, no harsh comments or disgusting responses please I do not have the hots for my father.

My father is a good man, dedicated hard working and honest and we are brought up in the Christian faith. I don't feel afraid at all, but, do you think I should confront him?

Could this all just be in my head? my panties didn't un-crumple themselves.

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  • beebop

    maybe hes trying them on and when he pulls them off they turn inside out? heres a trick i used to catch my own panty sniffing father.. i put some chloroform in the crotch of ur panties.. the pervert grabs em, sniffs, and whammy he's unconcious... then you drag him into the kitchen and tie him up, cuz hes got some 'splainin to do

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    • rybread87

      u cannot demonize people for this..u have every right to be uncomfortable with it, but u cannot demonize him for it..it's a natural thing. it has nothing to do with incest..it's just the natural repsonse to the scent of a woman.

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  • Can you you do your own laundry? Keep a hamper in your room for your use only? Doing so would set a physical boundary & would send a pretty clear message if he is in to something off base.

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    • no I can not do my own laundry

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  • fetishlover

    I'm not going to sugarcoat this, but I'm not trying to be mean to you either. Who cares? It would be much different if he was molesting or raping you, (since you're a handicapped person). They are just panties, let him have his cheap thrill and enjoy the smell of your kitty. Hes not doing it because you're his daughter. Hes doing it because your pussy smells good and it gets him off. Men can completely disconnect from things like this. Hes ONLY smelling the scent of pussy, NOT his daughters pussy.

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  • What'sright

    This is normal. Your father has needs as a man. So, if he is sniffing your panties and not doing anything to further his pleasures then I wouldn't worry about it.

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  • rybread87

    look, if he is doing this, it has nothing to do with incest and it has nothing to do with perversion..it has everything to do with a male and his general natural attraction to female scents..one day he got a whiff and he couldn't help but like it..it just so happens that it is his daughters scent..but, it has nothing to do with him having the hots for u or anything..it is simply a natural reaction and the animal coming out in him..your father doesn't have a woman, and i'm sure he gets very horny. this is all a natural thing. our soceity has dehumanized us so much, these types of things are unspeakable and demonized..but, the truth of the matter is that we are all animals deep down, and these things are natural, and will always keep happening as long as we are human beings..the only thing u can do is accept it for what it is..a natural response from the male animal within.

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  • okayokay

    thats not right. you need to tell someone, before it escalates. he's your father.

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  • Naughty4Younger

    I see nothing wrong with it.. I'm sure he's enjoying your sweet smelling aroma.. Bring it to his,attention that you know

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  • hibutthole

    Look baby maximum guys smell women's panty when find a scope. The word panty and visual effects of panty itself make every cock a rock hard. Every guy want to get a pussy smell when he become wild in sex. The best way to smell a woman is to smell her panty. I smelts many panties. When I was 17 I smelt my cousin sister used panty and her pussy smell made my cock like a iron. It is the best tool for masterbation. I smelts my aunt panty . Last time I smelt my sister in law

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  • It's not abnormal for a dad to desire least on a purely sexual basis his daughter,niece,sister,mother. For masturbatory reasons. We all have taboo sexual fantasies. As long as he doesn't coerce u into sex with him its all good.

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    • iluvboth

      You are exactly right.

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  • Ratso

    Do u have a pet? My dog goes in my hamper all the time and grab my unmentionables lol. If not, maybe u should ask your dad? Get ur own hamper?

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  • bleach_baby

    If your dad or brother or whoever was using them for something obscene they would take damn care to make sure they put them back how they found them. They must just have got changed through the gheneral laundry process.

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  • UnintentionallyIgnorant

    I think that you should set up a camera and get some evidence. Then as long as you have a relationship thats decent you should confront him with the evidence or maybe leave the tape and a letter explaining how you feel. i dont think its normal but i dont think he should be burned at the stake. but you should never EVER feel uncomfortable in your own home with your own father. though that seems normal these days. i hope you can find a positive solution.

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  • cockycunt

    What doesn't square is that he should leave your unmentionable unmentionables ( jeez and i thought i was repressed.. ;))) open to view having potentially 'used' them. If that were in fact what he were doing you'd imagine he'd be way more devious than to allow you any clue as to his behaviour. Or maybe he'd be genuinely naive --- or imagine you are. I feel for the two of you, this is dire for you both except that if you get to prove your idea unfounded at least you can go ahead and forget about it. I think all you can do is set a series of accurate traps --- and hope they prove negative. It's not impossible that he might have some /- innocent hygiene compulsion and feel a need to expose soiled underwear to the air on top of the pile ahead of washing it not even imagining you would be surveying the situation. Wishing you some happier outcome to your suspicions.

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  • iamyummy

    he's either haveing fun with em or just moveing them because they are in the way or something, maybe he is lonely that may be another reason he moves them.

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  • Stryker

    find a way to feel it out, if you get creepy feelings TELL SOMEBODY!

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  • LovingTogether

    I smelled my mom's and aunt's panties when I was 13 on, masturbating and enjoying the scent. For me and for many men (and women) the scent acts as an aphrodisiac. I've smelled my wife's, daughter's, granddaughter's. From 4 to 103, most vaginas smell the same--lovely! Sorry, but at 81 (and still sexually active), I'd still smell a pair of panties or bathing suit any time I can.

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    • iluvboth

      I sniff my daughters and granddaughters panties simply because I love the smell of pussy.

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      • clive111261

        good man love to join you

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    • bigtoy

      Another sick bastard. Pedo this time which is worse...

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  • BoredGuy

    pretty sure he is just sorting the cloths out to do the laundry.

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  • redfastlad

    As a male who has been sniffing pantys for years I understand your dads position in that the pheromones you give off in your gussets are irresistible to him and to use them to masturbate is no crime.I would accept that he is short of female company and can get sexual relief via your pantys, in a way he is paying you a compliment that your pussy smells so good, and really you cannot confront him on his pastime as it would ruin your lives,i will give you a little tip here try peeing into your pantys, the urine kills the pheromones and your pantys will be no use to him,hope this helps??

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  • xdresser

    Well I reckon good luck to him and let him sniff your panties all he likes. In fact put some on his pillow for him to see and know your ok with it.

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    • sick bastard

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  • Amember

    There is no harm done here. Sniffing and or masturbating with your panties should not offend or worry you.

    You said you love alone. He may not have access to others.

    I masturbated with my daughters, wife's or any others I could.

    It's a man thing. Feels good. No harm.

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  • shavi

    actually my problem is the same as yours. My father used to sniff my panties and I never dared to tell it to mum, coz she always used to beat me up and it was only my dad who always came to my rescue and at that age I needed really some support. But now at 25, I have my job, I live independently, ad I have talked about the issue with many. And I conclude that this behaivuor is downright pervert. You are in my situation as well, you depend on your Dad. plzzzz try to move out of the place. Cause from my experience 'when your Dad becomes a pervert, your mom starts beating you up for no reason, your brother calls you a bitch , its time to move out.'PS. not being harsh just telling you my best coz I was in the same situation once.

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  • Sissybobby

    I sniff mature woman's soiled ,girdle crouch at co Ed changing room,only one person at a time in there.i would snoop in unlocked ,lockers until I found a nice soiled girdle,then smell crouch until I cum

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    • robbieforgotpw

      What is a girdle crouch? Ahahahaha

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  • onehandinthehoneyjar

    Who... flippin... cares. who cares. he is your father. why don't you just ask him. What do you think he's gonna do? disown you as his daughter? Remember, he was attracted to your mother enough to make you. that he could be attracted to you a bit is not completely absurd. And just because someone puts "sick bastard" as a comment under my comment doesn't mean that I am any more of a sick bastard than anyone else here on IIN, or anyone else on earth either.

    I mean.. personally, I have zero desire to sniff anyone's panties. In fact, there's potential there to be turned off more than anything. Just give me the real thing. Jeez. But I guess a lot of people really like to do this so there must be somethin in it for em.

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  • samantha84

    I understand that you may feel violated by this...after our parents divorced, our Mom eventually met someone,Ken,and in between homes he moved in for a few months. I saw him smelling my panties but not chancing the confrontation,I left him alone. I liked him but after that i felt very uncomfortable around him. My sister confided soon after that she found stains in her panties also. He broke it off with Mom a year or so later

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    • onehandinthehoneyjar

      violated? you've go to be kidding. omg people just luuuuuv pulling out the "violated" card.

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  • Stereo1

    that's gross just keep all your stuff in YOUR room get YOUR own hamper.

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  • madmax125

    are you really sure. its him? before confronting him be very sure about it.

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