Do women mind dating a bisexual man? is it a turnoff?

It seems as the women cannot handle the man that they are with doing something feminine / bisexual in the sense of receiving. I find this a fascinating concept

My man being bisexual is a turn-on 16
Knowing/Seeing my man be feminine is a huge turn off/dealbreaker 11
Knowing my man may have done something bisexual is not a big deal to me 17
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  • Cuntsiclestick

    I really don't mind dating a guy who's bisexual and let's me fuck him in the ass with a strap-on. XD

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    • So you are into dominatrix play I assume? I ask bc you do not seem like typical cis hetero woman

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        I'm a monogamous bisexual woman with a strap-on fetish.

        It took a long time to get my straight boyfriend to let me play with his ass. He thought it would suddenly change his sexuality to bisexual or gay. He was surprised when it didn't alter his attraction to women. XD

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  • kikilizzo

    I'd find it hot. Queer men have a cool energy that is softer, more feminine. They're not horrified of breaking gender stereotypes and if they're bi they're open minded. Generally speaking.

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    • ospry

      Men are "horrified" of breaking gender stereotypes because women can be real cunts about it. I've had no shortage of women I've dated who tried to shame me for being empathetic, basically saying if they wanted to date another woman then they'd go dyke

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      • Curiouskitten444

        Omg what jerks

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        • Rocknrolla81

          Seriously

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    • Thanks for your honest reply.

      Okay but do you mind that same man dominating you in bed? Thats what i find the most interesting, is women cannot seem to find that man as sexually masculine anymore

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      • kikilizzo

        I would dominate him

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  • allialli

    I find that I'm more attracted to bi men than straight men, but I've never really questioned it. If I had to answer why I would probably say that it's easier for me to be attracted to bi men because they're the most comfortable in their own identity. They don't feel pressured to be overly masculine or be the breadwinner like straight men do, so it's easier to relate to them and they're much more empathetic.

    Of course, though I was born a woman and most people would consider me a woman, I'm non-binary so my opinion might not mean that much to you.

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    • Thanks for your reply, but do you like to be dominated by masculine man? At all?

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      • Privat-e

        Absolutely! I love when my man tells me what to do or brings other men home and records them f*cking me. I do it for him. It turns him on so it turns me on.

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        • Wow that's hot. Do u mind him f*king other women or does he desire to?

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      • allialli

        I do like the idea of it, sexually. Romantically, I do not like being dominated since I feel as though a couple should be equals. I think that a man in touch with his femininity can be just as dominant as one who is not, though.

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  • rkive

    I'm a bi-sexual woman. Dating a bi-sexual man wouldn't bother me at all.

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  • chiisana_izumi

    there's some interesting answers here.
    i say turn on but to be fair i'm a bi woman and i'm mostly attracted to femininity. there are some conventionally masculine men that i find attractive but overall i prefer men who are smaller/skinnier/shorter lol

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  • BleedingPain

    Strap-ons are my jam! I love a guy that likes fangirling over cute boys as much as I do, bit also finds me attractive. Its a very slim window, but its just what I like

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    • Slim window indeed, but if you know what to look for you may find that archetype often

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      • BleedingPain

        Eventually I’ll settle down and have a family, yada yada yada, but first I wanna tap some sweet ass for shits and giggles.

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  • Curiouskitten444

    I'm Afab but bi gendered so I've always kinda gone for bi men just I case I transition. That and i love twinks. I looooove watching men together.

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    • Very interesting. And I've always wondered, could you please illustrate to me what turns you women on about seeing gay men have sex? That is also fascinating to me. As I'm aware that a typical cis hetero man could not even fathom their woman being turned on by that

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  • olderdude-xx

    It depends on the woman. Some do, and some do not.

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    • Yeah, its definitely not that simple.
      Plenty do not openly want this. But There are some who are secretly curious about it.

      But the large part of women cannot handle this even though they may support gay men, because they are afraid that their man likes it more than they like vagina.

      & then there are those who do not like the idea of their masculine man being feminine as its a huge turn off for what turns them on about men in the 1st place

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  • LloydAsher

    Called klienfelters but whatever. I thought russia didnt have gay people. Or should I say officially they say the dont have gay people. So i dont think you have much of a court to talk about this subject either.

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    • KholatKhult

      I deleted my comment, don’t know what crawled up my ass to make me act like a jerk, I apologize

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      • LloydAsher

        In that case apology accepted. We all have our grumpy days.

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  • hauntedbysandwiches

    Your options make no sense. I love feminine men but would not date a bisexual. Plenty of men are feminine and not bisexual..I've never dated a bisexual men but have only ever dated feminine straight men. I hate masculine men.

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  • Lusty-Argonian

    I couldn't careless. I'm bi myself so if my guy was bi well let's just hope he's not monogamous and leave it at that

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    • Totally respect that

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    My wife would find it as a huge turnoff. She gets more grossed out than me about gay dudes kissing or whatever

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  • ChrissySnow

    I'm sorry but bi men are a turn off for me. I love bi women; I think most of us women are bi. I am. I just prefer manly men and bi men just don't feel as manly.

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  • DarkMatter

    Unless he doesn't look for another person besides me (assuming if the person is bi they want/need 2 people, 1 male and 1 female), everything would be fine (assuming I won't be able to give him the other "half" of what he wants). You can probably say that I am a physics person by the amount of times I said "assuming". Honestly I don't know what it's like to be bi (my knowledge about these is very limited). The existence of this post made me ask the following question: do bi people need 1 male and 1 female to be fully satisfied? I am straight. I am attracted to 1 and therefore I need only 1. Bi people are attracted to 2. Does it mean they need 2?

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    • Great question! I'm actually straight myself, but the answer is simply, it depends on if they are monogamous or non-monogamous. A bisexual person does not have to be polyamorous by Nature, they can be monogamous, that means monogamous to one person. A man who is bisexual can control his urges enough to not require other stimulation. However it is realistic and honest to question if he does want some of that at some time. Which is why I imagine most straight women don't like bisexual men

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  • LloydAsher

    My girlfriend knows I'm 100% straight. But it is a benefit that we can talk about interior designs and I know obscure shades of colors.

    Plus as a guy I can tell you that bisexual men give off the fact they are more std ridden than any other type of person.

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    • Interior design vs sucking off a man or letting a man inside you...not exactly a coorelation bro

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      • LloydAsher

        Theres a line between feminine and gay. It's not the same and i was slightly.

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        • You are confused on gender stereotypes, vs doing sexual acts. It wouldnt be "gay" it would be bisexual

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          • LloydAsher

            No it wouldnt. Bisexual is being bisexual. Being gay is being gay. Knowing what chartreuse is, is being cultured in colors.

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            • You're only gay if you are into one gender

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