Do you ever wish you were the opposite sex?

So I'm a girl and I love being a girl. However, sometimes I think about guy's lives, and I think they are so much better. They can be themselves without other girl's drama and judgement. They can just put on jeans and a T-shirt and be ready, they don't have to think for an hour about what to wear, or take forever doing their hair and make-up. So have you ever wanted to have the life of the opposite sex, even if just for a day?

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  • PumpkinKate

    I think just about everyone wonders what it would be like to be the opposite sex. I'm also willing to bet 99.99999% of people want to know what it feels like to have sex as the opposite gender! Wouldn't it be great if we could just swap as we pleased?

    I know some people that have felt so strongly about being the other gender they went through all the complicated stuff to change theirs! In fact, that's becoming more socially accepted, and my view is - if it makes you happier, go for it!

    Personally, if I was a guy for a while I would TOTALLY be a complete slut. For all the complaining us women do about how guys want to F anything that walks... if I had a dick for a day (sounds like a song, "Dick for a Day") I'd probably try putting it in just about anyone :P

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    • jussayin

      everything on here goes back to sex... Jesus!

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  • I'm a girl and I don't want to be a guy forever but I would like to be one for like 2 or 3 months. Maybe I would need a solid year though to get a good experience. I'm a virgin but I think I might be a man whore if I were to change :D

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    • jezzabell

      totaly true but think abwt it no periods party all the tym n think what would think abwt being a girl in a guys body u just end up gay

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    • auto101

      Yes I would love to change and try being a girl for awhile to feel the way it is I no it would be so nice if I could only try

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    • dappled

      You're one of the nice ones. You'll be okay either way!

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      • Aw why thanks dappled! This has officially made my day :D

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  • So fucking badly!!!

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  • perv101

    I would love to know how it feels to open my legs and have a strong man push himself deep inside me.

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  • Yes, but not forever.

    I think it would be a great experience to have sex with another woman as a guy. I think I would also like to try some guy on guy action too.

    It would be also nice to not have my existence marginalized by society solely because of my sex. To be encouraged to do great things from childhood onward, instead of being brainwashed to believe your best hope in life is to become somewhat educated then produce and care for offspring with occasional help from the father.

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  • dappled

    Every single day.

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    • Dappled wishes he were a girl? o: How come?

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      • dappled

        Because girls are absolutely marvelous and I'd happily be one, even though men seem to decide women are somehow inferior.

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        • Well finally a guy who acknowledges how awesome girls are!

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          • dappled

            I can't get enough of them! And I don't mean that in a sexual way (although that too). I just love the way women think and act. There's an emotional depth in a conversation with a woman that men don't really engage in. I like some of the amazing things men do, but I'd go mental if there were no women on this planet. :)

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            • Wonderlost

              Well said....well said.

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            • need more guys like u!

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        • bananaface

          The world needs more people like you:)

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          • dappled

            Thank you, Miss Face of Banana. Maybe we should clone me five times. And then I could send the clones out to work instead of me. :)

            But imagine the queue for the bathroom each morning. :(

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        • mckeon33

          Im a guy and perfectly straight and i acctualky thing that wemon are more of a dominate race and males are the inferior and i honestly think that it is a good thing

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  • nuttynathan909

    im a guy and i would love to be a female cause right now im into wearing girl clothes :)

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    • I understand how u feel. Girls clothes feel and look good. Plus its fun acting slutty.

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  • lisac1919

    id like to try to be a guy for a while but not just because of sex like a lot of people on here are saying.

    i would just like to see how people would treat me as a man, how its different, and to get to act like a man and for it to be normal, see what problems and stuff they face or whats funner etc.

    being a man for a while would probably make me a better woman

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  • Wonderlost

    I have wondered this a few times myself, I think it might b cool to be a dude for a day. Though in the end, I think I enjoy being a female.

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  • SoccerStud88

    i would just finger myself all day if that happens. I hear that female orgasms are much more powerful :)

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    • Byers346

      I feel the same way about it.

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  • Shackleford96

    I have often wondered...

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  • I'm happy being a boy. However, I would like to see the world through a girl's pov. I think just think it would interesting to see the world from a new perspective.

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  • PrinceDepressing

    That is quite ignorant. Being a guy isn't a dance on roses either. You might have your period and things like that. But nobody but yourselves makes you put on make-up and do your hair and whatever. So complaining about that is, excuse me, but pretty stupid. Im a guy and I have my worries too. My hair doesn't do it self, choosing clothes and shoes can also be a pain in the ass. And many guys worry a lot about the size of their penis. Just like you girls may worry about your breasts for example. Not only girls have changing room problems. It might look like we haven't got as many problems as you girls do, but there's a lot you can't see. But, I'm going to answer the question. Yes, i would really like to try to be a girl for at least a couple of days. I could be the awesome girl that knows what guys like.

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    • I see how it may have sounded like I was saying guys don't have problems. That's not what I meant at all. Everyone has problems of course. I just meant that for me specifically, I would have less problems as a guy.

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      • PrinceDepressing

        Maybe. I bet a lot of guys have the same thoughts about changing into a female too.

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        • ginnykub

          Some of us do! Lots of guys love wearing little pantys! Women get to wear all the feel good things!

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    • NothingxCrazy

      Not all girls choose to put on makeup or do their hair or worry about their breast size. You are clearly the ignorant one if you think that all females are the same in that aspect.

      Females do have a bit more issues than men. Our bodies change on a monthly basis. We go through a lot more pain and much more hassles than you do. Sure you guys sweat more and have more hair, but you can just shave and use products to reduce sweat.

      We can use pain medications to reduce our PMS pain and all other results of that time of the month, but that doesn't always work because sometimes the pain is just so bad.

      Not many guys could make it easily as a female. That's a fact.

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      • UnrecognizableMan

        "Not many guys could make it easily as a female. That's a fact."
        State your source.

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        • NothingxCrazy

          You obviously don't think I'm telling the truth. :P

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          • UnrecognizableMan

            Your obviously not! Not saying that the converse is true. Just saying its definitely not a fact.

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      • Shortshot6cut

        As a guy that is attracted to men I would love to be desired handmade love to. I wish I could spread my legs and receive a man.

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        • ginnykub

          Forsure! Me to.

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      • PrinceDepressing

        I've always felt that there's been a battle between women and men. And pretty much all the women (or mostly "girls") i've heard complain, have done it in a way that makes it sound like we guys have a lot easier life and no problems at all. I know that a lot of girls don't use makeup and that stuff. But that, and PMS is what i hear about the most. We can argue about this forever so i'd rather stop it now. Im trying to see everything from diffrent views, and i know girls haven't got it easy. But it bothers me that many girls view us guys as people with easy lifes. I hope you understand. I find it hard to type these long things and get everything right.

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        • NothingxCrazy

          I understand that guys don't have it easy. I'm sure you can't really compare the two sexes in the first place. Women get more of the pain and constant changing whereas guys go through other stuff (I'm not really sure what, but I know there's something!).

          I would never really say that men CAN'T deal with it, it would just be very hard for them to cope if they didn't have to deal with it from day 1 of their life.

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    • mckeon33

      I agree a tab bit on this but i always wonder what it would be like being a chick with masterbating and having sex i actually really want to know but dont want a sex change

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  • bookmaniac

    I'm a guy. I would love to be a chick for a couple months. I'd be a total fuckin' whore! I'd love to see sex from the other side.

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  • Mike_Towcester

    omg, I'd have loved being a girl!! I'd have retired a lot faster than at 54 - I'd have sold my ass instead of working it off! Oh jeez, I'd be on my back EVERY day . . . buy one, get one free as well lol

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    • All_Fired_Up

      A 54 year old+ guy saying lol?
      Wow

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      • YE

        Let me add another 'lol'

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  • when I was a child, I wanted to be a guy because everything always seemed easy for guys and well my parents always wanted a boy ... they were quite dissapointed I was born so when I was little, around 7 I went and prayed to god "I wish i was a boy so every thing would easy peazy lemon sqeazy!" haha but as I grew older I learned not possible! I'M glad I'm a girl abnd I'm happy being a girl but still a part of me always wanted to know how it felt to be a boy. To know if life is really easier for them?

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    • lisac1919

      same here

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      • chewy

        Hey its been awhile :D i missed you

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  • skyeracrystal28

    No, I'm proud of my gender and wish to stay as I am. There are pros and cons to both genders.

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  • mizeka

    If it was possible, I would become a woman immediately and continue living as one.

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    • ginnykub

      Me to! Love lingerie! Dress sexy

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      • Isn't lingerie awesome? We need to hang out! Lol

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  • Smartasscookie

    yes, for a little bit, then the thought goes away because I love being a girl ^__^

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  • novembro_11

    I don't think it would be easier in all aspects, but sometimes I just wish I could pee standing, wear whatever the hell I want and NEVER get a period. -_-

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  • graphic_nature

    I'm glad to be a chick but I'd like to try out having a guys body for just a day, I'd be more keen to what feels gooood.

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  • SEWnanist23

    I am a Girl just with pecks and a penis. Its you choice what you want to call yourself dude.

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  • Well sometimes but rare

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  • Equus

    I would never want to be a girl in real life but I have fantisized about being a girl and being fucked by a man. I would probably be up for it if I could do it in secret for an hour or so and then turn back into myself without anyone knowing.

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  • I'm a straight guy and I wear sexy lingerie,heels,miniskirt,bootie shorts a lot. I love women, but love dressing as aa girl and playing the role. I'm not attracted to men but am attracted to their packages when dressed up.

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  • Chiapett360

    Women are the absolute greatest of all of gods gifts. If i could be one for just a day i'm sure i would become completely in love with myself. They are so beautiful, so loving, and so amazing that i doubt i would be able to help myself

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  • Godoyourhomework

    I'm gay so sometimes I think it would easier to get guys/integrate into society as a girl, but I never wish to permanently be a girl unless I was PERFECT looking, seriously I would be the most insecure girl if I wasn't 100% perfect, I don't think I'd be able to take it.

    Also I've been thinking lately about how inefficient the female form is(giant fat sacks in front, more fat and less muscle overall, unnecessary large areolas). Don't get me wrong, women are beautiful but indisputably have less efficient bodies than men.

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  • No wonder why there are transvestites in this world... undergoing a sex change is not cool, just stay the gender you were born as.

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    • Raythr

      Does the idea of a person getting a sex change scare you? People will do what they want, and I am fine with that so long as it does not cause harm to another. I myself am interested in what being a girl would be like, but I like being a boy all the same.

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      • Lol it doesn't scare me, it more like freaks me out a lil bit. But then again I don't care what those people do its their life, it has nothing to do with me.

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  • defiantly . Guys have it so much easier- no giving birth, periods, cramps, pain during sex for the first time, taking a long time to find things to wear/ put on makeup... just like everything seems like girls have it harder. Plus guys can be themselves and be gross and girls have to be pretty and skinny and perfect! :$ not fair

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  • Animegirl

    ugh...guys are so luck. They don't have to bleed 7 days straight every month. A all they get is some damn voice change. They don't have to give birth either! What the hell happened?! Does God favor guys over girls? ((DONT TAKE THAT THE WRONG WAY PLEASE JUST A STATMENT!!!!!))

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  • 2_damgud_4

    one round of either & you'd be begging to go back to being a male .. lol !

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  • 2_damgud_4

    guys .. i'd seriously doubt you would want to be female after experiencing child birth & a period .. lmao

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  • 2_damgud_4

    Hell yeah ! The prospect of flopping it out too pee wherever .. dressing like a slob or everday with no repercussion & having sex with multiple people without the stigma attached like when women do this is somehow very appealing to me .. lol

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  • Tommy-B

    I sometime wish i was a girl, but only temporarily and just to masterbate.

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  • EAT_IT

    I want to eat as a woman as I've heard eating chocolate gives a totally different sensation.

    The power to transform at will just during the times that I'm hungry. Yes, that would be fun.

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  • Iam_Invisible

    i would want to be a girl to just look at myself naked all day :D

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  • doxies4life

    It would be interesting to be a girl for a couple of months or so. I would love to know why women laugh at things that aren't even funny. Don't get me wrong being a guy is great but it doesn't hurt to wonder what it's like being a woman.

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  • GrimDoll

    I love everything about being a woman, but sometimes I'd love to know what having a cock would feel like while having sex. On a side note, it's not fair how easy it is for men to pee, just whip it out and go.

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  • rick1964

    if i was a women id be rich

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  • i am a guy and in high school and some times i fantasize about being the opposite sex and how i would fake sick so i could finger my self all day but then a wonder about what i would miss out on like wanking so i would like to know what it feels like to be fingerd from a girls point of veiw but i wouldnt want to change sex for it but yes id say thats normal

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  • Wyattdubbs90

    Every second of my life i wish i was a girl. I want the clothes the hair, boobs, periods, babies, orgasms, everything that girls have that guys dont. Gender is a curse.

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  • tentacleTherapist

    Zerophillia is a fantastic movie. Hilarious and it could possibly interest you? :)

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  • othersonmyside

    being a girl is great and all i love being female, but being a guy would be so much more convenient,not to mention cheaper and you would have to be worried about getting pregnant which would be awesome

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  • CURLY210

    Im a bloke im straight but seriously I have thought how it feels to be a chick mainly in a pleasure way though .......No Homo

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  • simplyinsane

    If I were a guy, I would get laid 2-3 times a week and get a pat on the back for it. Instead of once every couple months and have people call me a whore for it... And then I'd jump up and down with a boner, just because I imagine it would look and feel quite funny.

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  • abc1234

    kinda. It would be nice to know how good they really have it.

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  • theytookthisone

    Sometimes but I appreciate being what I am already

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  • NothingxCrazy

    I don't wish to be a male but I wouldn't mind knowing how it feels. I'm always open to trying new things. Though, I don't think I could subject myself to the change for a prolonged period of time. I'm perfectly fine being a female with guy friends.

    I feel that if I were a male, my view on women would be different. Not because I want it to be, but because male brains are wired differently. They're more visually stimulated than mentally. It's something I wouldn't enjoy.

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce

    ugh God fuck that for many reasons if you are wanting to be a guy you better be going gay men and women both agree women can get absolutely coocoo its worse having to deal with crazies than being one and if I was to be a girl and was tired of dealing with other women I wouldnt or just haul off and give em a sweet ass kicking like us guys do to each other over absolutely nothing

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  • BurnaBaby27

    I would love to be a guy for a week.

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  • normalbroad

    OMG im kinda nervous that there is WAYYY more guys wanting to be girls!! GAY! lol

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    • jussayin

      doesn't mean gay...they want a chance to be the more awesome gender :)

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  • I'm a heterosexual guy, but I love to wear sexy lingerie and play as a girl. I would love to be a girl when it suits me.

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  • ONLYUSEmeBALLS

    yes . i wish i could be a girl because i have a lot of gf/bff's that are girls and ive gotten boners around them but only one i think someone noticed but because we all have heaps of respect for each other she didmt say anything or point and laugh so yeh its all good ... i wish i could <3 everyone

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  • Ibelievethis

    I love being female, as it gives me an excuse to be a moaning bitch and eat loads of chocolate and blame my periods and hormones. Never in a million years would I want to be a guy I think they have too much to live up to x

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  • iheartbrady

    ima guy and i wana be a girl so i just became gayyyy

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