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Do you sometimes think or have you ever thought you are never going to find real love and you'll end up alone forever?
*If you feared it at some point but not anymore choose the state (single, taken) in which you were at that particular time.
| Yes, female, in a relationship | 7 | |
| Yes, female, single | 29 | |
| No, female, in a relationship | 5 | |
| No, female, single | 8 | |
| Yes, male, in a relationship | 2 | |
| Yes, male, single | 28 | |
| No, male, in a relationship | 3 | |
| No, male, single | 19 |
I think being "forever alone" is a bit far for anyone to be afraid of. People don't realise just how long their lives are, or that almost nothing is forever. There are very, very, very few people in the world who manage to live naturally long lives but NEVER have a relationship. It's really, really rare. Like impossibly rare. The sort of rare where it would be very premature to ever think "but what if I am one of those people?".
Think how frequently everything else in your life changes... your friends, your job if you have one, your school if you go to one. Why can't your relationship status change just as quickly. You will meet literally millions of people in your lifetime. For there to be no mutual attraction in every single one of those cases is nigh on impossible. There is absolutely nobody adult in the whole world who no-one is attracted to, and that I can guarantee.
I'll make an exception for love-shy people, or people with very debilitating social anxiety. But even then, the possibility for a relationship is still there and strong.
EDIT: To be clear, of course I've feared being alone for a very long time before, but not literally for my whole life.
I'm a single 50-yr old male whose ALWAYS been alone,and never gave a fuck about it,and still does'nt give a shit.
Anyone have a big "forever alone" text block similar to the "troll face" text block?
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I couldn't stop myself
I knew I'd do it again
But I could heal myself,
If I could feel your skin
And if I comprehend this moment
I know we'll live again
And if I heal your wound
We will make love again
And now we're slipping through this millenium
We should feel sorry for the people
Can I kiss your skin?
And there's hunger in the desert.
And missiles in the sky
And every soul is interwoven
Before the wrong or right
I know we'll live again
Though it's just a feeling
I know we'll never end
I'll keep you company
I try to put it in the back of mind by telling myself I won't but due to my non-existent love life, I'm slowly heading towards that belief. I'm really tired of being alone.