Do you feel ashamed of your (weak) body?

This is for the people that don't train their bodies, or for those who do, but don't feel that they are at peak performance.

I'm pushing 21 and have never really worked out because I was so skinny and awkward looking. I'm getting into it now but am kind of ashamed for being generally weak, and struggling through crunches, sit ups and push ups [basic shit]. Jogging and long distance running is a bore so I prefer to sprint. My explosive sprints aren't really fast but I try. Part of me thinks I could go harder if I was on a track and not running around my block [you tend to be slower when you have to consider pedestrians and an uneven, crumbling sidewalk]

Basically, I'm feeling a little ashamed that my body is akin to a limp noodle. It's not bad looking, it's just not strong. I want to get into great shape, especially on the cardiovascular front, but these little self-pitying thoughts get me down on myself.

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  • DannyKanes

    Pain is just weakness leaving your body. So if you push yourself to point your whole body is aching, then you're doing nothing but getting stronger

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    • Pain is a warning signal from the body.

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      • Flippyfloppy

        Pain in the nostrils?

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        • Nostrils feel no pain!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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      • DannyKanes

        It's a figure of speach

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        • I know.......

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        • which wouldn't be necessary if people warmed up a wee bit longer lol

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    • flutterhigh

      So if I kill myself, does that make me invincible?

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      • Kar

        of course.. no one can ever kill you again.

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      • Captain_Kegstand

        Im sure it could be debated to the point where, to some extent yes.

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      • DannyKanes

        Lol, it's just a saying :P

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      • sograceful

        Well I mean technically the only way you can find out is to try..

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  • anti-hero

    I don't work out. But I am not weak. I was born with the gift of being a giant.

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  • Aleks85

    Not really I work out and do hard labor for work so I'm pretty strong.

    I'm no body builder and don't want to to be so I'm not ashamed at all really.

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  • Darkoil

    The most important factor when doing any exercise is quality over quantity, 1 perfect push-up is better than 30 shit ones and don't work the same body part over a 48 hour period because it's in the rest phase that your body becomes stronger. If you want any advice about anything please feel free to ask.

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    • Ah I posted this thread because I couldn't do a good push up/sit up without grossly sacrificing form. I didn't think my core was so bad!

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  • RobinHood2.0

    You shouldn't be ashamed. I was like that almost a year ago I had never worked out and was really skinny and tall so I looked even more skinny. Then I got into basketball and started going to the gym and started doing little but building up slowly and slowly . It's a year on now and I'm generally quite muscly and strong because I play basketball and it requires it's players to have a certain strength.

    So don't feel ashamed but do something about it :)

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  • Yup i am ashamed. A few years ago i was pretty fit. I was in military school and had a strong body. It has been 4 years since then, and i lost a lot of muscle.

    My little brother came up to visit me about a month ago. He has multiple black belts, and spent about a week beating the hell out of me lmao. I feel super weak right now. I have been working out a lot now, but i still feel like i will never reach the strength of my brother and my cousins.

    They are fucking super human lmao. I want power and speed.

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    • yeah you will. I watch hodgetwins and POG to keep me motivated. I'm a girl, but you know...

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  • dodongos

    I used to, but I've learned to embrace my dearth and wear girl's skinny jeans. Now I'm sexy as fuck.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    Yes but it is still very hansom.

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  • Dreamboat

    You sound like you're pretty weak the way you describe things. Im pretty sure if you put enough effort and strength to become stronger and get your body the way you want it to you will can do so.

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  • Make sure to work out correctly, form is so important, I think it was mentioned above, but it bears mentioning again. Form leads to the best results.

    Also be sure to not over do, I dont know if you are male or female, but regardless, if you do over do your joints will suffer from it.

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    I'm huge into any sport that allows me to compete against other people, and I love to run. I have hit the gym 7 days a week for more than a decade now, so I love my physical appearence!

    I started excersising religiously because I was very tiny as a freshman (5'6" and about 100lbs) so I had to bulk up considerably to be able to compete in football! My peak weight was 145 but I don't work that hard at it anymore. Just keep hitting the gym and you will get where you want to be!

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Well...
    I could go to the gym and slim down or get toned...
    However, my lowest safe weight is 115, I am now 125-130 and remain there as a constant. The achievements to my appearance as is would only be slightly noticeable. I'd like to get back into shape...

    But I'm a bookworm, pure and simple. Lucky for me, my build allows me to not work out and stay at the average weight. I'm not a big sports and physical fitness type of person. I'm sure I could be if I tried but who the heck is expecting me to look like Jane Fonda anyway?

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  • Glass

    I don't mind my skinny body structure. If I actually had a reason to work out, I would. But I don't.

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  • myownopinions

    Sometimes. I haven't exercise much lately so I sometimes feel ashamed when I eat really unhealthy food or find that I can't do 10 pushups as easily as I could have when I wasn't so weak.

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  • superaspie

    I have a weak body but a strong mind.

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    • thinkingaboutit

      but still a weak body ;p

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  • I natrually have a strong build, and I barely exercise, but I want to start again soon.

    I feel ashamed of myself that when I say "I'm going to exercise tomorow" I blow it off.

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    • Everyone feels ashamed when they procrastinate.

      I'm procrastinating right now lol

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  • gncp

    yes. im thin and ill looking. im striving hard to look normal but whatever i do, i cant gain weight. BUT i consider myself not weak, im stronger than some people who are bulky and can do what they can do. i can lift weights, run for hours etc. im just ashamed that i look weak. :(

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    • Have you tried mass gainers?

      I mentioned this above, but I used Up Your Mass for about a week and a half and gained 5/6 lbs. It all depends on your caloric intake. If you have unusually high energy, and eat a lot of calories but are still skinny, you may just have hyperthyroidism. Some other marks of hyperthyroidism is uh fat deposit behind the eyes (eyes bulge outwards), and nervousness.

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      • gncp

        yup! i tried it for months but i cant see any developments thats why i quit. i also tried any sorts of food supplements and unfortunately it looks like that all of those are not effective. i also eat more than normal. im not sure about the hyperthyroidism coz im not experiencing the symptoms for that.

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        • Wow. I can't believe it! You drank a mass gainer and worked out...with no results at all? You really could be having issues with your thyroid...do you get hot or stuffy for no reason sometimes(high metabolic rate)? You should see a doctor.

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          • gncp

            ive visit my doctor once in a while, he says im still normal and he will just prescribe me the best multivitamins he know. in the end, i still cant find any visible results. it do have anything to do with my metabolism, he say.

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  • nowhereboy

    I was built like a super noodle a year ago, im in good shape now ;)

    Eat eat eat and eat, buy a good protein shake and lift weights. You will see a differance in weeks.

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    • haha Up your Mass made be gain like 5/6 lbs in a week and a half (yes I am that skinny).

      But it made me want to puke after the first week. :( Maybe it was the vanilla flavor. But yeah, I would weight train too. I've been studying for finals so I haven't hit weights in about a month :(

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  • Corleone

    Hey, at least you're making a change. Sure, you're not that strong yet, but if you keep this up, you'll get results. You're also your own worst judge for these kind of things, so don't fret about it.

    If you want to get strong on a cardiovascular level, you'll need to do some jogging or cycling rather than short sprints. Use the 'cardio' option on exercise machines. That oughta keep you on the right level.

    Also, what Darkoil said.

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    • sprinting is a way better cardiovascular workout.

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      • Corleone

        You sure? What are your sources for that? At the gym, I've always been told that you need to keep your heart rate at a certain level for a long period of time.

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        • well, idk google it lol. When you increase your speed, your body automatically increases the threshold for O2 consumption, because it knows that you will soon be deprived of 02. This means that your heart rate will increase almost instantaneously, pump more blood, and harder. Blood is circulating faster, forcing your lungs to pick up speed. Your lungs get bigger and more efficient, quicker. This kind of workout builds fast twitch muscles though, which wouldn't help you out in a 10k marathon, if that's your kind of thing.

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        • Captain_Kegstand

          That depends on the purpose of your workout.

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          • Corleone

            Yeah, I mean for cardio or weight loss. Power training is something else.

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            • Captain_Kegstand

              You are exactly correct! I'm a small guy by nature so weight loss has never been something I wanted. I'm interested in weight gain lolz.

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  • DolphinAngel

    Hmm simple answer is No... I never felt like I had to work out... I don't think there is a need for... Why should I do this when I'm comfortable with my body... I don't have any muscles and Ok I'm way too skinny and want to gain some weight but I don't really care... I don't see the point...

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    • anti-hero

      If you didn't have any muscles you couldn't move.

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      • be dead is more like it lol

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        • anti-hero

          True. The heart is a one also. I forgot about that.

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  • Wambo37

    i got a sixpack and alot of muscles so no :)

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  • dappled

    I feel a bit guilty reading this. I do much less aerobic exercise than I should (I do get a good amount of anaerobic, though), and I've been lucky to inherit a body shape that has muscles that are just "there" without needing to be worked on. At least once a month, one friend or another wants to feel my biceps. I think it's just a mystery to them because I'm definitely not the gym-dweller type.

    As for you, though, I was always told there are two reasons people work out. Either to be fitter, or to look different. If you want definition, it's a whole different regimen.

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  • Anime7

    I'm a slow runner, always have been and always will be. However, I run every night for the fun of it and to keep myself in shape. When it concerns the muscle tone of my body, I'm not too ashamed of it. I may not have Jacob's body, but I'm capable of doing some sit-ups and push-ups. However, I will say that I'm small in stature and am immensely jealous of tall people.

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    • if you're jogging or running at a steady pace you are building slow-twitch muscle, which helps you go farther but not faster. If you want to be fast, sprint because it builds fast-twitch muscles. It's a faster workout too, which I like.

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      • Anime7

        Thanks but I do a little sprinting also. When I reach the last 100yards I run until my legs are numb. Although sprinting is a shorter workout, running long distance is kind of peaceful. I can't describe it other than runner's high.

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        • anti-hero

          It's a good way to relax.

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          • Anime7

            Indeed.

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    • anti-hero

      Being tall isn't all it is cracked up to be, I wish I was shorter.

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      • Anime7

        Want to give me some of your height?

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        • anti-hero

          How much do you want?

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          • Anime7

            Do you can spare 4 inches? haha

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  • laguz

    Who said you were weak?

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