Does being good looking prevents desperation?

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I’m not talking about relationships, I mean when you’re in the dating stage and getting to know someone new. People don’t know much about you besides how you look and it plays into their instincts.

Example is you ask for their number and they takes yours and don’t usually text back. Or when you try to hang out and get to know them but they don’t seem interested or always say they’re busy. Unfortunately when you push to get to know them, it often repels them.

When you’re attractive, you’ll know sooner whether they’re into you or not. On the first conversation they will ask questions about you and make time for you in the future. Obviously, if you’re a jerk later on, all bets are off. But you have a foot in the door to let your light shine.

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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    I don't care much of looks, its about how you present yourself and your personality that counts. I only date someone not because I want to I only do it because of their personality and what kinds of things I too enjoy in terms of hobbies.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    Good looking, or not if you have to push it isn't meant to be.

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    I've always had an easy time getting a date and i've never gone on a bad date. I don't consider it a win though. They always base their view on me on my looks which is makeup and style and they think i'm cute because i'm shy and maybe somewhat quirky. Then they get disappointed because i'm not some cute, airheaded submissive girl. I may be shy and come off as more innocent than others in person but i'm pretty set in my ways and I don't hesitate a second to stick to my boundries and i'm picky about whom I let close. If anything i've had to deal with a lot of superficial, dishonest jerks who wants an image without any depth. A lot of guys want a girlfriend for stability, consistent sex and to look like he has everything together. Especially men from dating apps. It's rare to find a genuine soul. It makes you more standoffish if anything.

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  • my_life_my_way
    3 years ago

    I think I’m sexy and I just let guys come to me, I suppose it’s easier for girls though

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  • SwickDinging
    3 years ago

    Although there do seem to be certain generic standards that decide whether someone is "good looking", whether or not someone is actually attracted to you is very personal. No one is attractive to everyone.

    In fact, in my own experience, the men who talk to you who assume you find them attractive just because they think they are, are actually quite off putting. Nothing kills someone's sex appeal quite like arrogance.

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