Does my best guy friend like me as more than a friend?

Hi I'm trying to figure out if he likes me or not.

We were friends first then dated a few months but we broke up mutually because we were both going through extreme stress. But then I recently asked if we can date again and he said we can't be in a relationship but he wouldn't explain why but I like we're boyfriend girlfriend.

Here's what he does:

--We talk every day go out to museums, dinner etc every week.

--I go over his place and sleep over (no sex that was only when we were dating for the few months). When I accidentally fall asleep, he always picks me up from the couch and carries me to his bed and tucks me in and he sleeps on the couch. I tell him to leave me on the couch he can have his bed but he insists.

--He buys me chocolate when I'm going through a hard time.

--He asks me how my day at work went.

--When I don't feel good he drives over and makes me something to eat.

--When we watch movies together we lean on each other's shoulders and sometimes he gives me a back massage.

--He definitely finds me attractive because he stares at me a lot and when I ask what he's looking at he says "nothing you're just really beautiful I can't help it"

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  • Mini69

    Tell him you don’t want to date him but you think you should become friends with benefits. That way you get the sex thrown in to what you already have, and it sounds like you already have everything except that. So it’s a win win it becomes a relationship without actually officially calling it a relationship.

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  • a-curious-bunny

    Why you break up

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    • He lost his job then we started arguing more and more. He said a relationship was too much to handle and he didn't think we were compatible anymore because we argued often but we haven't argued in a while. I was also going through a lot at the time so it was so stressful but I didnt want to break up, he didn't either but he says we can't try again because it's probably not meant to be and he doesn't want to lose me :/

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  • Tommythecaty

    He’s more likely a closet homosexual given that behaviour 🤭

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  • newnormal

    A guy would always want to bang you. Even if you are ugly as hell. Its normal for it to be like that. This is the reason i dont allow my gf to have a guy friend.

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