Does physical attraction make a difference in how you see someone?
I don’t mean like being rude or a selfish jerk. I’m talking about how they approach someone they are interested in and how their hobbies are viewed. Here’s a couple of examples:
Average guy: I’m into Star Wars and Minecraft.
Girl: Ok.
Average guy: Have you ever played it?
Girl: No.
Good looking guy: I’m into Star Wars and Minecraft
Girl: Wow! So you’re a cute geek. My favorite! Tell me more!
Plus as an attractive, in-shape guy, you don’t need to be witty and super skilled in your approach. If you sit close to an attractive girl in class or walk up to someone, just say: “Hi, how are you?”, “Hi, Cassy! How’s your day?” Simple. No pickup lines, no openers, no teasing, no negging. Just a plain hello. Greet them.
This is why I advise guys like myself: If you struggle with socializing and are shy with approaches, lose weight and hit the gym. I’m going for two meals a day for a month in order to lose 10 lbs and then getting a little muscle on the arms. That will help me be confident in the fact that I don’t have to be Jerry Seinfeld or a quick witty comedian because my Asperger’s doesn’t allow me to. Changing your personality and being more fun/extroverted is unnecessary as long as you meet some physical criteria.