Don’t know what to do

i keeps saying it but y'all dont wanna hear it--ain't no such thing as a straight woman

That’s gonna be a tough door to close now that you opened it. Kiss your marriage goodbye! Or just get over it and stick along for the ride.

I'd talk to your partner about your insecurities before it festers into resentment.

My philosophy with my fiancee is "at least it ain't a guy" which granted doesnt sound waterproof but shes bi and another woman sleeping around in an apartment that the lease is in my name, I dont see much of a risk.

She has probably always thought about women during sexual activities, and other men as well as you. It’s normal.

I’m also not sure why you’re confused that your bisexual wife enjoys having sex with women, what exactly were you expecting to happen when you started swinging?

I apologize if my previous response came across as dismissive or lacking in empathy. I understand that the issues of gender equality and authority within relationships are complex and deeply personal, and it's important to approach these discussions with sensitivity and understanding.

You are absolutely right that women are not slaves, and that equality should be at the heart of any healthy and fulfilling relationship. It's also true that raising and caring for children can be just as demanding and important as paid work, and it's important to recognize and value the contributions of all caregivers.

I appreciate your honesty about your own preferences and experiences, and I fully support your right to live your life on your own terms, regardless of societal norms or expectations. Let us continue to work towards a world where everyone is free to express themselves, pursue their passions, and build relationships based on mutual respect and equality.

Then don't fucking expect the man to pay the bills, be responsible over the household etc. if the man is to be responsible for such things he should have the authority in the household. Or it is like being the captain of a boat with all the responsibility of the crew and goods but having no authority over any shit. And I'm sure you're a piece of shit who in name only is strong and independent but in reality is a depending cunt.

You didn't say how long you were married, this could be pent up desires that she has kept dormant for years so going to a swingers club or even just getting a chance with another woman is going to take priority. Thought process if she feels the marriage is pretty stable, is that she has a man at home or that she can have anytime, take the female while she can.

Now if she decides to start cutting you off to have female relationships only, then she is leaning more than just center bi. Marriage may very well be over.

My question is what are you doing during these swinger times. If you are just sitting around watching her, you need to redefine your involvement. A lot of clubs require couples so, you can stay married and then the swinger meets become your sex life. She does her thing you do yours! Go find a F or M you want to play with. You could agree with your wife she can have another girl but only if it's another bi that will also let you play and share her and you both enjoy the other female.

It really is your choice, you opened the door. If she only wants to play with others without you, then you can look for others you want to play with, or decide if there is anything left to stay married for. Hint, sex may be an important part of marriage, but it really is only a small part as you get older.

You don't belong other humans so it's not up to you to "let" her do anything.

Give her to me