Everyone hates me eventually

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I don't know what to do, I can act like a fake person with an acceptable personality and people will like me but that's like tricking them and I don't actually like them and I feel bad when my real side comes out, I feel even worse when they are still my friend after that, because they thought I was someone else better.
they say just be yourself but no one likes me then. So what's even then point, people say don't live so much in a fantasy world but I can't live properly in the real world either
And if they say they don't hate me its just because they haven't dealt with me long enough. Everyone hates me eventually.as they should because I'm a terrible disgusting person. So what's the point of living in reality when my true self is consumed and defined by such bad thoughts

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Stinky_Niggers

8 years ago | pl

Welcome to reality. In western culture most people are raised on a bunch of bullshit ideologies. I.e. "Just be yourself and people will like you for you", "beauty is on the inside", "try your hardest and good things will happen", "work hard and you'll be rewarded for it"

This is all crap.

If being accepted by others is that important to you, yes you will have to morph into a new personality and put on a big dog and pony show to get them to like you. Especially around women if that's important to you (again I have no idea), women tend to gravitate towards men who are the loudest and get the most attention from other males.

Or you could just do you, and not care what others think.

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- flyingnostalgia
  
  8 years ago
  
  You are a very very sad man, indeed.
  
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  - Quintarius
    
    8 years ago
    
    I thought stinkys comment was really good actually
    
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  - Stinky_Niggers
    
    8 years ago
    
    Every comment you make is more and more idiotic.
    
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    - ThingOne
      
      8 years ago
      
      Oh dear. Stinky, sad, and niggardly. Oh dear.
      
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Good point, I just get bored some times and would like other ppl to talk to.
  
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  - Ellenna
    
    8 years ago
    
    Boredom is easily fixed: you must have some interests, pursue them until you find your passion and pursue that.
    
    I saw this quote yesterday by Pablo Picasso:
    "The meaning of life is to find your gift and the purpose of life is to give it away." Not that he gave his paintings away as far as I know, but not a bad idea I think.
    
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- Legion
  
  8 years ago
  
  That reminds me of liar, liar
  
  "But my teacher said real beauty is on the inside"
  "That's just what ugly people say!"
  
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- noid
  
  8 years ago
  
  I don't like those kind of men.
  
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thegypsysailor

8 years ago

If you don't like yourself, how can you expect anyone else to?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  How can I like myself if no one else does
  
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  - dirtybirdy
    
    8 years ago
    
    That's deep bro
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      Are you trolling
      
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      - dirtybirdy
        
        8 years ago
        
        Nah, only when I go fishing.
        
        Do you need a warm feathery cyber embrace?
        
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  - Short4Words
    
    8 years ago
    
    It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks as long as you're happy with yourself.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      but you are naturally a good person, what if someone wants to be good but they aren't?? Should they fake it even with their self? It's really hard to live with these bad thoughts that I can't even tell anyone
      
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      - Short4Words
        
        8 years ago
        
        I'm not a good person I just try to be. Just like you.
        
        Sometimes you really have to push yourself. Don't just become a walking carpet though.
        
        As for the bad thoughts maybe a therapist would help?
        
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      - Ellenna
        
        8 years ago
        
        Bad thoughts don't make you a bad person, bad actions do.
        
        How could you fake it with yourself? Get out of the mind games and live a good life: it sounds as if you think you're bad because you're not perfect, but is anyone?
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        8 years ago
        
        Well i've posted my thoughts before and you said i was a bad person and reported my post
        
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      - insanebotv21
        
        8 years ago
        
        I'm naturally a bad person, but my redeeming qualities make up for it. You've got to follow those through, and resist the urge to harm others.
        
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  - Ellenna
    
    8 years ago
    
    You have no control over other people but you could decide to learn to like yourself and see what happens. Could it be worse than right now?
    
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- Quintarius
  
  8 years ago
  
  speak for yourself
  
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victorygin

8 years ago

Is this the postal service? I like you...

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- Legion
  
  8 years ago
  
  Lol
  
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SoularWind

8 years ago

I find the same in my life. You are an aquired taste. Not for everyone. They probably lie to themselves so often, they don't know that they like you. The ones who hate you see a part of you in them. It scares them. It makes them come out from that mask they've been wearing. You need to find real humans like yourself.

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Smokey1D

8 years ago

I have bad thoughts too. Just don't let them define who you think you are. They're just random thoughts, man. Let them go - there's no truth in them - they're like...imagination.
And you'd be surprised how many people DO know the real you. No-one's that good an actor all the time.
Face it - you're probably an OK Dude - you just have to get your self- confidence to show it to others, without fearing the rejection. Hang in there - it comes in time.

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bucho's_butt

8 years ago

What I like to do is hide a lot of my weirdness for a good while when I meet people. Then, after we've become good mates I start to show them how nuts I really am but by then it's too late. I've grown on them too much. That's what you should try and do.

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joshmatt

8 years ago

Meh dude. I'm a douchebag and I still find people to hang out with. I do those fake things that everyone does sometimes, like don't say what I think out loud, when I know it will be hurtful or boring. That's not so bad.

When I need people to like me (at work for example) I just try to do the strong silent type and be useful. I find it real enough not to hate myself in the morning for putting out a circus show.

You have to find your own zone. If you don't have any idea how to act with people, you're introverted or shit, try to connect with people via your hobby, knowledge, facts, something that is objective, informative, interesting, but not personal.

Hell, if everything else fails, you can become a youtuber.

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sexysonofsam

8 years ago

Fuck Off!

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Somedutchguy

8 years ago

What would be the reason for people to dislike you?

I am generally a strange person and I am not afraid to show some of myself to others.

All it does for me is that I only have good friends.
Those who don't like my true self shouldn't be my friend to begin with.

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- Legion
  
  8 years ago
  
  Thats the way I always looked at it. I Am who I am, if you don't like me, whatever, now go away
  
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