Ex is extremely jealous of my male friend?

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I have a male friend I'm getting to know and was invited to his house for a party. Pics of him and I were posted on FB and since a bunch of people both my ex and I know were tagged, my ex saw it and got insanely jealous and tried to confront me about it. This ex always acted like he couldn't stand me while we were together and cheated on me with and left me for another girl. Why does he even care now? He is acting like he feels threatened when we haven't dated in years.

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Cuntsiclestick

3 years ago | pl

Your ex is a weak minded bitch. Why are you still friends with him? He has zero say in who you date. Block him and cut him out of your life. XD

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  I'm not friends with him, but since other people he knows and is friends with were tagged he saw the post and saw me in the pictures with the other guy. Apparently the other guy having his arm around me really bothered him and he's really nosy as to what our relationship is, which is none of his business. I never blocked him because I thought he never cared and moved on rather fast, but I guess I was wrong and will be blocking him for sure now.
  
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  - Cuntsiclestick
    
    3 years ago
    
    It's good that you're going to block him. There's no reason not to at this point.
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RoseIsabella

3 years ago

Your ex sounds like a really awful person! It's not rational to look for a rational explanation for irrational behavior from an irrational person like your ex.

I have a question for you though. Why are you, and your ex boyfriend still communicating with each other? I think you should block your ex on all social media, or if blocking him seems like too much then at least unfollow your ex, and completely ignore him like he doesn't exist. Your ex sounds like a real piece of shit, and more than likely he's a bit of a sociopath, and a narcissist. At the very least your ex has some traits of sociopathy, and narcissism in addition to having a complete lack of insight, and self awareness.

You're better off without him, and should cut off all communication with his crazy, self ass!

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- Somenormie
  
  3 years ago
  
  Awful plus a toxic person to be with.
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  I don't, but since other people were tagged that he knows, he saw it. We're not friends on FB and he contacted me out of the blue. I thought he was over me years ago (never really even believed he loved me in the first place), so I never blocked him, but now probably will. I never even bothered responding to his text.
  
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ellnell

3 years ago

He is controlling and abusive. Doesn't want you but doesn't want anybody else to have you either.

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Boojum

3 years ago

Clearly you attending the party pushed some buttons in what passes as the brain of your ex, but there's no point in you trying to understand why since normal people can have huge problems comprehending why nuts respond as they do.

However, I think you should be concerned that the arsehole seems to believe he still has some sort of ownership of you. It wouldn't be paranoid of you to take steps to try to make sure he knows as little as possible about your current life, and to keep an eye out for him doing stalkerish shit.

I think you'd also be wise to alert the other guy to what has happened, so he won't be caught completely unawares if the arsehole suddenly confronts him.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Yes, I didn't think he even thought or cared about me anymore so never blocked him, but will now. I'll let the other guy know too.
  
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PleaseTalkToMe

3 years ago

Cause people want what they cant have! Why date men u know 99% chance their stick a dick in a hole regardless of what that hole may be

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Didn't know that at the time we dated... we were each other's first and we were teens.
  
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have_a_good_day

3 years ago

I don't know, I think he sounds like a swell guy

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Which one? My ex?
  
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  - Boojum
    
    3 years ago
    
    You shouldn't take anything have_a_good_day says literally or even too seriously.
    
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