Facebook stalking

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Everyday I get to work and turn on my computer. I check my email and my facebook account. For some reason, I feel like I have to look at my husband's ex's profile and pictures all the time. She was with my husband before he and I got together and he left her for me. For some reason, I'm the one who's feeling insecure. I don't know why I feel the need to see her profile everyday. And it's not just hers, her husband's also. Is that normal???

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  • confused80
    13 years ago

    Fb ruins relationships

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    • jlop0506
      13 years ago

      i agree on some level

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  • theytookthisone
    13 years ago

    yep its normal, after all you should watch your back for taking him from her. same thing could happen to you, but it could be someone you don't expect it from ;)

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  • bluegreen94
    13 years ago

    Yes, it's normal. You are just being curious like everyone else. I do it. And I know my husbands ex does it too. You have to understand that he left her for you. He didn't want to be with her , he wanted to be with you. She probably looks at yours and gets jealous because she got dumped and you got him. It's a two way street. If it is that you are just looking at it and forgetting it I wouldn't worry but if you find yourself obsessing I would stay off of it for a while and it will help you get out of your own head thinking about it.

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  • redhearts
    13 years ago

    The relationship with your husband was an ugly mess from the start obviously. Staring at her is a strange, unhealthy way for you to confront it. You are realizing she is better off than you. She is like a warped mirror of what might have been.

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  • Meli
    13 years ago

    It's normal...I guess but you feel insecure because he left her for you and if he did that to his wife watch out he could also do it to you

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    • jlop0506
      13 years ago

      @meli: they were never married

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  • Sweetz
    13 years ago

    Facebook isnt personal. really they needa change things about it so that ppl stop stalking

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  • cynical
    13 years ago

    Seems like you can't learn to let go, they are EX's for a reason. Your only doing damage to yourself and self-esteem. Sometimes letting go is true love.

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    • cynical
      13 years ago

      LOL re-read your message I apologize I'm half asleep here haven't had my coffee. Your looking at your husbands ex's facebook? Wow all I can say is you are pretty insecure about trusting your husband?

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      • jlop0506
        13 years ago

        maybe it is a little of feeling insecure but it's not that i don't trust my husband. i guess it's just that sometimes i think about maybe if my husband and i had never met, maybe they would've ended up together, that's all and maybe they would be happier together than he and I are. it's not that we're unhappy, we just have problems like all married couples have problems.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I used to do that. Whats in the past is in the past

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