Falling in love with boyfriends best friend

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i feel like i’m falling in love with my boyfriends friend.
my bf and i have been dating for almost 2 years now. he’s been cheating on me for most of it. he’s a liar and i think a narcissist. i’m still with him for a lot of the wrong reasons but he’s my best friend and i do have love with him. i’m just in some sort of trauma bond i think. and i’m friends with most of his friends. over the last 6 months i have found myself developing sort of a crush and in this last month i feel like i really like his close friend. they’re not SUPER good friends but they go back.

the friend has been seeming to want to hangout with my bf more but sometimes it feels like he wants to hangout with him bc of me. he looks at my a lot, has gotten a tattoo of a drawing i did, is nice and offers me things. and there just is this chemistry. i don’t know if he feels the same way but sometimes i think he does.. it’s just a feeling who knows maybe i’m just assuming.

any advice on how i should go about it would be appreciated. i don’t think i could ever tell him straight up that i have feelings for him but if something were to happen in like a drunk environment i wouldn’t resist. this is so hard!!!!

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  • RoseIsabella
    1 year ago

    Do not cheat on your scumbag, piece of shit boyfriend. Be the better person, and dump that sack of shit you call a boyfriend, then call up his friend and ask him to go bowling with you as a platonic friend, because you're lonely, depressed and need moral support from a friend. See where it goes.

    Just whatever you do don't cheat, because cheaters are scumbags. Just kick the loser to the curb, and keep in touch with his friend. If your boyfriend really is a two-timing, narcissistic abuser don't worry about ruining his relationship with his friend, because people like that don't deserve love, affection or companionship from anyone.

    If you dump your pile of dog shit boyfriend, and he tries to manipulate you by threatening to kill himself, just tell him he's your ex, and that bullshit is no longer any of your concern, then call 911, and tell them that the asshole is suicidal. The authorities will come, and have him committed to a psychiatric ward where he belongs! 😊

    NEVER EVER FEEL GUILTY FOR LEAVING AN ABUSER, ESPECIALLY IF HE'S ALREADY CHEATING ON YOU, HE IS NOT WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE!!! 😎

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