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I only find overweight women attractive. My current girlfriend is very overweight and weighs 250lbs. How strange is it to find such women attractive? Does anyone know about about any studies conducted that examine the percentage of men finding this type of women attractive?
I didn't know I had this fetish. My wife didn't lose the baby weight after our third, in fact, she's gain considerably more. At first I was worried I wouldn't be attracted to her, but just the opposite, I can't get enough of her curves. Our youngest is now 7 and our sex life has never been better...
I had a similar experience. When we met, my wife was rather slim but struggled to keep her weight down because she loved to eat. Over the first couple of years we were together she gained 50 pounds and was miserable dieting and then gaining back more than she lost. I worried about this transformation and what others would think of my fat girlfriend, but then found that I was strangely turned on by her fattening up. I confessed this to her and told her that as far as I was concerned, she could eat as much as her heart desired. I also facilitated this by taking her out to eat frequently and bringing her plenty of her favorite foods. She was relieved not to have to diet any more and happy to give in to her love of eating. So we're both happy with this. The only concern is that she's now well over 300 pounds and it's starting to get difficult for her get around, fit into seats at the movies or restaurants, etc., but her health is good.
Fat is an absolutely normal fetish. I know many people, myself included, who enjoy more skin on their woman's bones.
It amazes me how so many people are so willing to disagree with this fetish, though. As if it's either the most disgusting OR the most dangerous. It's not even slightly close to either and just proves our societies' abnormal obsession with a "perfect body".
I think comments should also be moderated like the one who said fat people are shit like Poerto Ricans. How on earth can you say something like that? My gf also 360 lbs (157 kg) and there is nothing wrong with her.
Lets not group all overweight people into one stereotype. As with the thin, there are various sizes and shapes to the overwieght.
Hygiene is certainly an issue with the extremely overweight, but it doesn't mean that they can't, or don't keep themselves groomed. In fact, many of the overweight are probably more concious of this need. I've met thin people who wouldn't shower each day, or who smelled like thay crawled out of an ashtray. If you've never had an overwiehgt friend, then you must be living under a rock. If you've never been intimate with an overwieght person, then you don't know what you're talking about, or what you're missing.
I agree with Blaffer about the rude comments! It is perfectly normal to prefer fat women or men. I'm a fat woman (210 Lbs) and I like being fat. I am not selfish or a drain on society. I do not want to loose weight and would not mind if I gained 150-200 pounds. I love food and being fat. I am very clean as well. Many men adore big women. I get four times as many "offers" as my thinner friends. There was even a study in the news recently about obese people having more sex than thin people-I believe it.
Well, i thought i was one in a million too until i discovered others online. Then again it's not something i parade around to everyone. I'm a female but i love big guys, like my fiance recently gained alot of weight and it make me loose control over myself, and thats how i found my fetish. So don't feel ashamed theres other people like you from both sexes
But what if you like a man with a belly that had gained it and they dont like it and how they look and wont to get rid of the waight even though you tell the man that you perfer them like that i diddnt like it at first but then it grown on me and a learned to love it now am mad bout it and sex is miles better x what do you do?
it's a preference everyone has one I am fat my husband loves fat girls... there is websites and everything for it
nothing wrong as long as your not ashamed
I have the same fetish. Take a look on Wikipedia it's got some interesting info.
i agree with both Blaffer and sweetbelly. i prefer bigger women over a skinny women any day. idk why i just do. its arousing to me. and no im not big either im actually very fit but i love me some big women thhey are the best :)
I do not understand this fetish but it is growing in popularity in the adult industry. The series "Scale Busting Babes" directed by Rodney Moore has obese women having sex or masturbating. They wouldn't be making these movies if people were disinterested so it must be appealing to a select group. Different strokes for different folks I suppose.
i also find overweight women attractive,my girlfriend wieghs 350lbs,she always wears tight clothes,and it seems like her bellys always hanging out.i love it.but i feel so weird people are always making comments about her weight to me, such as you can do better,or you must not be having any sex.still i cant help how i feel
It is no more a fetish than liking thin people or liking big boobs is. People only call it a fetish because its unusual or because they don't understand it.
It is simply a preference. A dangerous preference though. While I have nothing against the idea of people finding fat people attractive it worries me that it is making it more acceptable to be fat. Being overweight or obese is dangerous for your health. It increases your risk of heart related diseases and diabetes. It can dramatically shorten your life span.
You must be popular with the ladies then because all girls are worried about their weight.
If it is a fetish, it be definition is not normal. Doesn't make it bad though, it is just what you find hot.
Most surveys show men like hip to waist ratio of 1:0.7 which won't be acieved by overweight women as they have larger waists, it's a sign of fertility apparently. Being overweight is generally considered unattractive as it's viewed as a sign of poor health so you are on the unuaual side.
Lots of men like this and there are clubs and chatrooms about it. I dont mind if a women is a bit big but these morbidly obese women repulse me
I dont personally have this fetish but i think its okay as long as shes okay with it and youre not just forcing her to be fat. And keep it limited to under 350 lbs because anything higher than that could put her life at risk. so if she goes higher than that tell her to stop because you care about her
I think every one just needs to calm down. Honestly I love it. I find bigger women (to a certain extent) really sexy. But not everyone agrees with that and that's ok. Although as much as I love it I know it's not healthy either. But in terms of excitement it's awesome. But people who say weighing 157 kgs is 'healthy' is kidding themselves. But as long as everyone is happy. Whether your 50 kgs or 250kgs as long as you're happy. I personally like no more than 120 kgs. My favourite person to watch currently is mykawaiilittlebelly on YouTube. She's currently 196 pounds. Check her channel out. Her work is amazing
What worries me about folks who are far over normal weight and into the morbidly obese range is that this limits their mobility and stresses their hearts. I KNOW many commenters say "she is healthy" or "He is healthy," but I'm betting their SOs are young people like themselves in their 20s and 30s. Excess wear on cartilage, pain in the joints, skin losing its elasticity and strength to hold up all that excess fat are things that occur over time, as does arterial blockages. Being plump and curvy or carrying around 20 or 30 extra pounds is one thing. But carrying around 200 to 300 extra pounds, triple some folks weights or the weight of another human being on one frame is damaging. Think of not being able to get your huge love up off the sofa when you're both in your 50s or 60s or beyond. Or their not being able to go to the bathroom alone. Or unable to do anything outdoors like walk, hike, go to Curves to stay healthy. We lose muscle mass as we age and the only way to combat that is regular exercise and the use of some weights and working up a sweat. If your heart is doing double duty just to walk your body to the bathroom, this isn't possible. I think the fetish is OK if it stays mainly in fantasyland. I'd advise anyone to get therapy to work through this. A fetish is a fetish and it won't leave. But there are healthy ways to deal with it. Fattening up a partner to immobility or obesity and saying they are healthy is living in denial and not considering the long term at all.
I just have a few things to say. First off, to each their own. I do how ever think this poll is slightly biased I looked up "fluffy fetish" and this was one of the first sights that came up. But i do think wanting to be with someone who is thick is normal. I'm about 260 and I have guys who tell me that they find me really attractive but it's just odd because I've always been told that "beautiful" women now a days could fit into the cloths they had when they were 14 so I always figured that the guys were only telling me because they were desperate for sex or just being nice. To be honest I'm glad to hear that people are enjoying being the bigger person or being with the bigger person. Curves can be beautiful and I'm honestly getting more proud of my body every time I read a comment about a thick woman who isn't afraid of her size or even being a bit bigger. I hope to see more people who enjoy being with thick partners and i wish them all the best of success.
harder to gain then lose you have GOT to be kidding me right? You have got to get a clue.
C-mon people, dont be dissin all the strangeness, why were you here again? What if we were to judge you and think of you as, "disgusting, or ewy' so stop hatin and try to understand. sheesh!
And this isn't a judgement, it needs to be seriously considered as choosing a lifestyle that excites you while ignoring the other person/downside. Being a foot fetishish or or cross dresser has its interpersonal risks, but they don't compromise one's physical health and lead to diminishing health as time goes on. This has nothing to do with disgust. It's a fetish that has a controlling, dark side.