Fear of being touched by others and myself (19 year old male)

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I flinch or panic when I get touched by another person. The same thing occurs if I touch the intimate areas of my body. I cannot masturbate; when I attempt to, I start shaking and panic. I often feel hypocritical; because I have a tendency to touch other people (almost compulsively) but will flinch or become uncomfortable if they touch me.

For those wondering, I have not been sexually abused, nor have I ever been in an intimate relationship with another person. I'm not close enough with my parents or any friends to ask for their help, so what should I do?

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  • nodirection111
    9 years ago

    the whole bit about being careful that a shrink will put you in medication, gypsysailor is right, psychologists are best for rooting out the problem. Talk therapy is the better option in my opinion.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Sounds likeva neurological issue.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I'm guessing yu haven't had much luck dealing with this alone. I couldn't imagine going through life like that and if it doesn't appeal to you either, I see nothing other than professional help. However, I would be extremely cautious about allowing a doctor to put you on medication, instead of rooting out the problem. I doubt wandering around in a drug induced stupor would be any better than what you are experiencing now.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Who would specialize in something for this; a psychotherapist?

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        I'd begin with a visit to your GP and explain the problem. He/she could then recommend a doctor from there.
        Perhaps a bit of googling would be helpful?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          Okay, thanks for the advice. I've tried googling this before, I couldn't find anything helpful. That's the main reason I came here.

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