Fear of lonliness

I am 24 years old and have nobody in my life to share things/feelings expt this website...I do have friends but nobody is so close,I lke some one but that person is getting married soon...now i have a fear that i'll grow old alone.Is it normal?

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Based on 50 votes (45 yes)
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  • gummy_jr

    You're still young and you have time :) don't give up. I would try making more new friends, you don't always need a significant other to cure loneliness.

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  • thegypsysailor

    It's a little too early to give up, don't you think? Average lifespan is around 74 years these days, so, with 50 or so to look forward to.....
    But, you know, you'll have to get out to meet people; they're not going to come looking for you.

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  • 24 years is nothing my man. You're still young. Believe me soon you'll find the love of your life. You just have to be patient. You'll be fine, i promise.

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    • rachel.dsouza

      Thank you so so much Acumen.

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      • No problem! Take care.

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  • lovelylady85

    i believe its completely normal. Im afraid of growing old and everyone I love dying around me.

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  • cathyt112

    Def normal. We are always alone. That's the hard truth you can check. Even when you're amongst a lot of people.

    You should check out this document. It's the truth of life (that you can check--not religious BS) that you can check for yourself in your own life. It's the only thing that can fulfill you.

    http://www.truthcontest.com/entries/the-present-universal-truth/

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    • rachel.dsouza

      Thanks cathy :)

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  • highrider

    Well while youre on your own, you could learn something new. Might help u make friends :-)

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    • rachel.dsouza

      hey girl...where u disappeared?

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      • highrider

        I was getting attacked by squirrels, sorry.

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        • rachel.dsouza

          now u ok?.pretty girl

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          • highrider

            Ya I'm fine I was kidding Lol ya know with the guy and his obsession with throwing squirrels at me. And thanks :-)

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            • rachel.dsouza

              hahaha,,yes i saw those comments..seems he is very much interested in you baby..hmm have fun and keep commenting..do you saw my new posts? Your suggestions and commets are always welcomd..Take care and keep in touch :)

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    • **harasses highrider with ground squirrels**

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    • rachel.dsouza

      yes right....I should learn piano

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  • Derpinism

    it is easier to make friends if you share common interests
    you sometimes need to chase them up as well because they might be uncomfortable making friends or not very outgoing

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  • kingofcarrotflowers

    I share the feeling, u know a lot if people say 20 is young but, from the past I've had has cut off ties, burned bridges and wasted oppertunites so it's hard for me to meet someone now I guess.
    Plus I don't believe in this " someone for everyone " stuff, I don't think set things are meant to happen.
    People die and get left, left in the chair they died in because they have no-one to care for them, but people also die wondering how they've been so lucky, that may be me someday, and it may be you, looking back at a time when you never thought you would be that lucky, it's a possibility

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    • Aliceee93

      There is someone for everyone :) but you have to make an effort to. You shouldn't go looking for love so they say, but staying at home all day won't find you someone either.

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      • kingofcarrotflowers

        Good to have you back :)

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        • Aliceee93

          Hehehe :)

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  • DragonQueen

    Or you could try a satanic Cult. Seriously, The guys with those goatee beards. Hot baby. And those implanted devil ears. Ahhhhhhhhh! I'll lend you one of my young hot caramel muscular lovers. I have too many. And I have a kvetching Husband. To contend with. So many men so little time.

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  • handsignals

    I've tried hookers, alcohol, heroin, prescription meds, every thing!

    ...maybe we should try making friends.

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    • rachel.dsouza

      ya..we have to learn social skills as one of my welwisher on IIN suggested.

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  • peterr

    Take night courses and you will meet others. Join a club or just hang out at a coffee shop. Date the waitress or the cook. Suck a cock or two my friend.

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    • rachel.dsouza

      I really appreciate your concern peterr but why you are always about cock sucking? There are a lot of fun things to do.I will surely suck the cock or cunt but when i findout some guy or girl who really loves me. think some diff.good day peterr.

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      • peterr

        You are on the right track. Good luck.

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        • rachel.dsouza

          thanks peterr

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