Feeling like everyone hates me

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I feel like everyone or most people hate me. Either because of something personal or because of my ethnic background. I get that most people don't know I exist but because of the ethnicity I was born as and the person I am they hate me. I actually do know people who like me, but it seems like they don't matter because of the others outweigh them. I feel whenever I meet a new person, they'll just hate me. They know the others do, especially if that person is related to me or shares my race. They'll think, "Oh, they must be right or justified" so they'll hate me too. I feel it will be impossible for me to date or make new friends because of this.

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    What is your ethnicity? This doesn't make much sense to me. Maybe you have low self-esteem. Were you mistreated, and or neglected as a child? Perhaps you were bullied in school? You're not alone.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      Yes, to both questions. I have depression and I am in therapy. I rather not disclose my ethnicity but I come from a place where racism and tribalism is prevalent (basically racism within a race because of tribe or ethnic affiliation). My experience and feelings are also reinforced by stuff I've seen online.

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      • RoseIsabella
        2 years ago

        Wow!

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          2 years ago

          What do you mean?

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          • RoseIsabella
            2 years ago

            I'm sorry about those other words there were there. It must have been some typo my phone conjured up to embarrass me.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    I dont kno your race and what country you're in but its possible people do not hate you as much as you think for your race. Some people might but the vast majority of people arent gonna really care enough to care about ur race

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  • LornaMae
    2 years ago

    But why? Why would you think that? It doesn't add up. How are you so sure of that? Has anyone ever told you they hate you or could it be that your perception of how people see you is twisted?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      Bullying, being ignored, racism, and tribalism/ethnocentrism. Poor relationships (including friendships). It seems like I was born the worse person imaginable and everyone treats me accordingly.

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  • Rocketrain
    2 years ago

    Bipolar disorder

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    • Billy24
      2 years ago

      What the fuck does bipolar disorder have to do with this? And are you a damn doctor? Because if not how the hell are you gonna tell them they have bipolar disorder? 🤣🤣🤣

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      • Rocketrain
        2 years ago

        Bipolar disorder have side effects to have a sense that everyone hates them. You don't have to be a fucking doctor to have common sense. Read a book. Learn something you don't know. Pay attention your own mind when it alter. Rather than trying to argue with no such a point. Higher level of anxiety leads to side effect of a sence that everyone hates me. Commonly describe as side effects of bipolar. It doesn't mean right on hallucinations. Its not Schizophrenia. Every mode swing that occurs due to bipolar mind has it own reason. Sad and and anxiety a reason is a sense of receiving hatres. Every thing has steps, Idiot !

        Read what he claims , very first he says I FEEL LIKE everyone hates him. Then he point two subjects it's either personality or ethnicity. Again he says HE FEELS WHEN SOME ONE NEW MEETS HIM THEY HATES HIM. he isn't sure. It's a sense.
        I need to type hundred thousands of words if I have to explain this to an idiot like you. So, do your own research before you fire back to a subject that you have no idea of.

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        • Billy24
          2 years ago

          First of all, I have family members that have this disorder and i've read tons of times about this disorder so quit acting like you know me or what I do just because you know my fucking username on this damn platform. Second of all, while you're trying to play expert you've forgotten that EVERYBODY IS DIFFERENT WHAT THE EXPERIENCE IS GONNA BE DEPENDS ON THE PERSON. Third of all, BIPOLAR DISORDER ISN'T THE ONLY FUCKING MENTAL ILLNESS THAT EXISTS. Fourth of all, before you reply back learn how to read replies in a fucking comment thread because the OP said they have depression which can be the damn cause of why they feel this way dickhead. But you're the psychiatrist and you apparently know everything.

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          • Rocketrain
            2 years ago

            I don't know you and I don't give a fuck about who you are either.
            I don't know everything but I do know about mental illnesses better than you because you only have family who have disorders I have worked in a mental hospital for seven months when I was 22 according to a project I was in and before we're put there we had a another five months of a training that same as psychiatrist, so yeah I don't know all but I know better than you think I know. I'm no doctor. But I have spend times and gathered information from people with mental disorders. And worked with psychiatrists.

            Depression have a cause. Need to separate it that to find why. Like a water tap one single water flow when hits the ground make a huge impact of varieties of different incidents.

            He's having a feeling that everyone hates him, that make him sad, bad anxiety etc. sadness lead to depression. It's the cause of the depression not the other way around. His feeling changes with facts that really doesn't exist. He is having early stage symptoms.
            You are just looking at the surface . Learn how to figure out what's the foundation and with what foundation is made of. Depression is just a out come.

            It's ridiculous when people have to criticize something only because they can't figure it out by them self. Reason you think my statement is bull shit because you don't have the capability to understand the big picture, discriminate the causes and comes to a conclusion from where the ice berg is. Come with another reply down talking to everything I say only because you have zero knowledge about this. You're not the only one who argued only because of their own lack of knowledge.

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            • Billy24
              2 years ago

              First of all, I don't give a fuck if you don't give a fuck who i am. Second of all, bipolar disorder isn't the only fucking mental illness that exists. Third of all, you think because you worked with psychologists and apparently can magically diagnose someone over the internet you're better than me? Okay Mr. Know it all since you want to play internet psychiatrist I'll also play internet psychiatrist and just diagnose you with Narcissistic Personality disorder since you know... narcissists think they're better than everyone.

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