Female wants to be gay

It's not a common desire so I have to vote no on this one.

However, the premise itself does beg some larger questions. The main question being, would this make you gender dysphoric? (the step before trans).

I recommend taking a good long talk with yourself. Ask yourself whether this is a want or a need. If this is a fantasy where you're a man and in a relationship with another man, it may just be a fetish. However, if you feel like you must be a man, that's different.

If being a woman is daily suffering and you feel constant discomfort with your body, you may be gender dysphoric. This may be the start of being transgender. However, make sure you're certain of it. Transitioning is a very painful process that involves a lot of medicine and visits to doctors.

If this is a simple fantasy, go wild. Crossdress or draw yourself as a man and enjoy your fully homo fantasies. You might just really love men.

By all accounts go for it.

You'd love to as in you are transgender but haven't transitioned, or you just... want to transition randomly? It's not normal per se, but you do you.

You belong picking up soap bars in the showroom of a super max federal penitentiary!

Boys will be boys

Do you mean you identify as a man and feel attracted to men? Gay trans men do exist, I don’t particularly enjoy his content but Noah Finnce is a semi-famous example.