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Finally I had a dream where I kissed my crush, and it felt so real, but what I'm wondering is this: is it possible to control your dreams somehow? I want to experience it again, but it's so rare for me to have such a good dream where I am able to experience love. It's the only way. So I want to learn to control my dreams. Is there a way?
Feel free to chalk this as complete nonsense but I remember back when I was a teen, I kept doing dumb shit like observing the room, checking the time, and saying aloud:
it's [insert current time here]
Its [insert current day, month, and year here]
I am here right now existing. This is the present.
I eventually found myself doing those things in my dreams and realized the inconsistencies in the rooms and the inconsistencies in the current date and time. Whenever it happened it suddenly felt like the whole dream was wobbly and unstable. When I made attempts to correct the dream I had no control. After a few dreams my attempts to change things were working little by little until I was able to control all the things I do. I can even go "fuck this shit, I'm out" and just exit the dream and wake up. I don't do that as much anymore because then I can't go back to sleep. I've always had insomnia so doing that is really not good for me.
I wasn't intending on learning how to lucid dream but I did. You might want to look up How To Lucid Dream on Google to see if there are other ways to learn if what I did doesn't work for you.
On a side note I cannot lucid dream when I dream of certain people that only exist in my dreams. I don't exist when their adventures are the dream. All I can do is watch what they do. They all look like anime people, they have their own names, personalities, and lives all on a semi floating timeline. It's like my own personal anime that I only I can watch. They've been here since 2004. XD
How long did it take you to do that and be able to do it in your dreams? For a couple weeks now I have been looking at my hand, or touching a wall and asking myself, "am I dreaming?" Every day, but so far I haven't been able to do it in my dreams.
Lucid dreaming's a real thing. You'd probably be better off growing a pair and approaching a real life human than trying to learn how to lucid dream though
If i woke up next to a loaded gun by the side of a table, I probably would of have shot myself, maybe that would snap me back permanently to the dream world of eternal nirvana with a crush.