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If you know she never had sex and is too nervous to try even though probably wants it, are you usually willing to wait? How do you decide it's worth waiting for?
| Less than 1 month. | 105 | |
| 1-2 | 73 | |
| 2-3 | 74 | |
| Up to half a year. | 107 | |
| As long as she needs. | 549 | |
| I don't need a virgin. I move on. | 63 |
Up to her. End of discussion. If you don't like it...move on and let her find someone more deserving. If you like her, respect her, and can be patient, hang in there.
why becoz when u find a pure woman and u both r in love ... dont let her go.. Sex is part of life ... sex is not life .......
You should wait as long as she needs. It would be wrong to rape her or guilt her into having sex of any kind. There are plenty of ways both men and women can relieve themself of sexual tension without having actual sex. Besides that, 9 times out of 10 people who weren't ready to have sex and do have it regret the decision.
Im waiting till im 18+ and i would prefer it if my boyfriend waited, it really shows that he loved me, and he wasnt one of those sex crazed me
well, if i had a boyfriend, and since im a virgin.. i would reallly not like it if he were pushy.
im all okay with the ass-slapping and stuff :P but not when it goes "too" far! ;)
i'd definitely wait til she was ready. iv'e had to wait before and its more meaningful to her if you boys out there do wait.
I never leave they to decide when because sometimes they can take forever to thing about it.
Also, mostly girls (personal opinion/experience) likes the man to take the initiative.
Its good to wait, but not to do nothing.
ill be honest. id wait however long it takes until shes completely comfortable and wanting to do it, but... i would fuck her the day i met her if she wanted to. im not gonna force anything on anyone, and i wouldnt be able to live with myself knowing i had sex with a girl and she didnt want to. ill wait till shes ready, but that doesnt mean im not gonna fantasize about banging the bejesus out of her:P
You wait until the next time she closes her eyes. lol not really, I'd just wait until she felt like she was ready.
Well, you kind of have to wait. If you're in a serious relationship, that is. It doesn't make sense to pick a virgin fuck-buddy anyway, though.
But really, what are you going to do, force her?
i think they ment that if u find the person special and he just happens to be a virgin, it´s worth waiting.. not that virgins in general are.. though at some point they are))
if ya love her wait but if not get tha hell outta there and chase some new ass!
im female btw
if i was a guyy i wouldnt wait for more then a month..nah im lyin more then a week...the way i see it a females virginity only has value because on females u can tell if they arent a virgin and on a guy u cant really tell if they are. and society is so fukd up that that damn DOUBLE STANDARD i fukn hate it..
I can wait. We could probabli get marye and never be scare if the guy before me was better in hes.¦0
as long as she needs?? oh really??? no lie??? ohhh..hahah.. that would be sooo sweet!! seems like there is some caring guys still, lol,
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i would never think that SO MANY GUYS WOUL WAIT SO LONG, ... what a good boys .. ;DDD
No need for waiting.Fresh meat will be devoured instantly with or without her consent
Its about trust and communication and sensitivity. If you want to get it over with, you are rushing yourself. Sex should be a natural, exciting, bonding experience if its your first time, but dont try to build it up in your mind too much, -that will create unnecessary tension, unrealistic expectations, and the possibility of feeling let down or unfulfilled. So, wait as long as you need to, if the guy cares about you at all, he wont mind, but DONT WAIT FOR THE SAKE OF WAITING! That will leave you disappointed and it may take longer for you to begin enjoying the experience, and comfortable enough to evolve sexually. And yes, it is something that develops. Dont make the mistake of thinking we all get excited by the same things and dont remain in one role, ie, always pleasing him because it makes you feel sexy, be sure to communicate and it will get better everytime.
if he loves you forever, but u cant stop him from masterbating or watching porn :P
Girls like it if you wait for how ever long they need. Its really sweet,coming from a girls view. ANd if you dont wait they tell their friends then they wont date you.