Forgiveness.

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I once slept with this guy..I kinda took advantage of the moment we were both drunk..and I knew he would do it.Also feeling lonely.Anyways it was great and afterwards I got really attached.I would message him but he had another girl soon after.The thing is this guy is so extremely popular,smart and good looking and his new girlfriend is the same.Every flipping day I think about that night and am so paranoid that they talk about me and how low I am in the world .Its actually causing me great anxiety.I often think that Il see hi, again in a few years and he will want to be with me.Even though I know thats kind of crazy and Il probably never see him again.I really really want to get over it .Any advice?

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago

    I had a very similar experience. But the truth is, it was just drunk sex. She ended up getting married and never gave me a second thought.

    Its probably the same with you and this guy. He'll just get on with his life and forget about you. I think you should do the same. Leave it behind.

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  • JD777
    8 years ago

    Unless you know better, I wouldn't assume he's even mentioned to his new gf that he slept with you. So, there is probably no talking behind your back - could all be in your head. Easy for me to say, but try to put it out of your mind and move on.

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  • Shackleford96
    8 years ago

    Forgiveness by collective soul is a good song.

    I doubt he dwells on it, you shouldn't either. Your thinking behavior is obsessive and illogical.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Do you really think that this "extremely popular,smart and good looking" couple have nothing better to do than discuss the few minutes of drunken sex he had with you?
    Forgiveness? Try forgetfulness.

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    I know where you're coming from but the best thing you can do is to let him go.

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  • normalpeoplescareme23
    8 years ago

    Come over to my house and let me erase your memory, it really works!

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    I know it ain't easy, but you should try to forget about him, avoid one night stands. You will eventually feel better if you just let that shit be, trust me.
    ;-)

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  • Angelmikeal0
    8 years ago

    go fuck another person like me for example that should cure you.

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