Formerly hot ugly fat girl.

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Most of my young life I was a pretty girl with a great body and I never really thought about looks. I knew I was what guys consider hot but to me it was just normal. I'm older now and I've developed a condition which makes me ugly and fat. It's amazing how different people treat you based on looks! I think a lot of men and women are shallow cause they treated me much better when I was attractive. I'm depressed cause when you're ugly the world isn't such a nice place.

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Comments ( 24 )
  • RainbowDischarge

    Sad, but true. Not everyone will judge a person by their physical appearance though.

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  • handsignals

    Pretty much same thing happened to me. It makes you realise how totally gay people really are.

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  • Arm0se

    People who judge you based on what you are on the inside are people who will stay with you forever, cus' they don't give a fuck about what you look like, or if what you look like changes (like it did).

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  • postmanlover

    Let me guess, you used to be shallow back when you were, Self described as 'hot'? Sounds like a case of karma catching up to you, for putting so much importance of appearance.

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    • wistfulmaiden

      No. I was always a nice person. That's why I'm upset because my personality is the same as always.

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        I'm sorry you feel depressed over this.
        :(
        I sort of had something like that happen when I was overweight, people would crack jokes along the lines of "Ha, a fat chick eating a lot at a buffet: Gross". Then I lost the weight and the same idiots that said that are like "She's so tiny yet she can eat so much: Awesome." The crappy fact of life is that people are shallow. The good thing is that not all people are like that. Also, you look just fine in your profile pic.
        :)

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        • wistfulmaiden

          :)

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          • Cuntsiclestick

            ✿◕ ‿ ◕✿

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      • postmanlover

        Well then I bet u are a cute fat girl!

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        • wistfulmaiden

          :)

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  • BigKid123

    Well I'm fat and ugly. People don't treat me badly. Yeah there's the odd few nutjobs that shout names and comments from across the street, but the majority of people treat me the same way as anyone else.

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  • VirgilManly

    There are alot of people who find heavier women to be hot. Why do you think there is so much BBW (Big Beautiful Women) porn on the interwebs?

    "I like big butts and I cannot lie."

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  • jethro

    You are associating beauty with thin. There are plenty of big people (men and women) who are attractive and a plus size. There are plenty of thin people who are also dicks. So maybe when you were thin, you were a dick and now poetic justice is just having its way with you.

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    • wistfulmaiden

      I've always been a nice person and when I was normal size I dated heavier guys. I don't see heavy people as ugly, just myself

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      • jethro

        "Normal size". Just what is supposed to be normal size? Now I am curious. Just how tall are you and what is your weight? If you are like my niece, she puts on a couple of pounds and hits 115 and she says she is fat. She is 5'5 and wears a size 0 and she thinks she is fat. You see yourself as fat and ugly and people sense that.

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        • wistfulmaiden

          Well I think we all have a range. My natural weight is about 120-140 and I'm fine with that...I'm 5'5 also. But I take several mess which cause weight gain and also melisma and I'm around 180 lately. So skin discoloration plus weight gain makes me feel ugly

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  • wistfulmaiden

    Well I feel pretty crappy lately. Maybe if I get off the meds things will improve but for now I feel, bleeck:(

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    • RoseIsabella

      I think you're hella hot!
      ;-)

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      • wistfulmaiden

        :) thanks

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        • RoseIsabella

          You're very welcome! Hot chica gotta represent.

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  • It's pretty sad but it's true. Luckily for me it's in reverse, though. I was a terrible-ish looking teen, I didn't care about my appearance at all, people weren't as nice to me, sometimes downright cruel. Then as a few years passed I started to look better and I noticed the very people that didn't treat me so well ended up complimenting me, being nice to me, and so on and so forth.

    Now that I've improved in my looks with age (luckily my family is like that) I've noticed that people are generally nicer to me.

    Could be worse, though. You could of never looked good. Some people don't even get to experience the experience of positivity just for their looks.

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    • BennyTheBunny

      I can respect how you took this opportunity to slowly turn your comment into a low-key brag. Well played duz... Well played.

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      • I was kinda going for the subtle approach. Didn't work, huh? :/

        But in all seriousness, I wasn't trying to brag but I can see how it comes off that way. :P

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  • nameless-girl

    You were ALWAYS ugly now u are even MORE ugly. Sorry iif this offends u

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