Friends being distant on my birthday

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So today is my birthday and I notice a distant vibe from my friends. They didn't message me or ask to hang, and no I shouldn't have to ask for someone to hangout. Yes, This is pretty entitled and 'privileged', but it's one day of the year that I'm allowed to be selfish. I'm normally a people pleaser, as I do things to make others happy.

What's worse is I asked one of my friends (who was begging me to hang) if she wanted to spend time with me. Well she did the lowest thing and make an excuse to cancel. I feel lonely and unwanted by my friends and I feel like a piece of shit..... ON MY DAY, MY OWN BIRTHDAY FFS! I know people have it worse on their birthday, but I haven't hung out with my friends in so long... No one asks (except for that one friend)

Anyway rant over, am I just being childish or should I validate my feelings?

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  • RoseIsabella
    1 year ago

    TREAT YO SELF!

    https://youtu.be/u094qvRYDA0

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  • ospry
    1 year ago

    My birthday's on New Year's Eve. I've literally never had anyone make or accept birthday plans on that day, so I'm having a hard time empathizing

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  • Wow3986
    1 year ago

    Yes, you're being childish.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    Kind of childish yes but understandable to feel that way. As you get older ppl quit caring about your birthday more. Thats more of a young person thing. I hate birthdays.

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    • dabadedabadie
      1 year ago

      I love birthdays my family buys me a fuck ton of booze

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