Friendship, dilemmas
Hi there;
I have a friend of four years and she is genuinely a nice girl in person but in the last 6 months or so she has just been rather annoying and I'm not sure if it's me being completely petty or she's just really dumb.
So, she's obsessed with dating - she's a gorgeous girl and full of life but her decisions with men and how they treat her and how she is with them - really annoys me.
She was in Israel for a couple of years a while back, she dated this amazing guy, she was happy but then they broke up on NYE of this year. She came home back to Australia and ever since then she's been trying to fill her man void.
She met up with this Lebanese creep; pretty much a week after she landed back home where I live - they met up at the movies and this guy was just ALL over her. They barely new each other and he was forcing himself on to her. I said to her...um he has sexually assaulted you and you can't see this?
He basically felt her up while they were watching a movie and she didn't feel any sort of connection with him. Then they tried sex and he kinda forced it...she was telling me how she was all dry when they had sex and he suggested to lube her up and that they should use sunscreen...I'm like what are you doing with this guy??
Anyway, this relationship didn't last long because he wasn't paying any attention to her emotionally and this pissed her off.
She moved onto the next guy pretty much after she was done with the Lebanese guy. She met a Greek guy who was an absolute dick head. The way he spoke to her...was really upsetting from a friends perspective - he was causing arguments for no reason and berating her saying that his car was more important then she was. I kept telling her to leave this guy but apparently he had a hot body and the sex was amazing.
Eventually she ended this relationship...
Then she moved on to just casual going out dates which didn't work out because one has a gap tooth and the other one was not really her type which is FINE!
She met a young guy not long after that - who after a month told her he didn't want anything to do with her and then stole her money while they were staying at a hotel and I felt really bad for my friend. Like that's a horrible thing to do to some one but then she's like...well, I'm hoping he'll miss me and come back. I'm like the guy stole money from your wallet and you want him back??
She's like...yeah but he's poor.
She's like...if he comes back to me maybe I can date him until someone better comes along...
Now she's single again, and she's got two guys at her work place coming on to her and they were like playing games or whatever and she sounded like she was complaining to me saying...Ugh this guy has his knees in between mine or something - and I'm like these guys are touching you at work - she's like but I'm an affectionate person and I'm being bashful >_>
She's not the brightest tool in the shed, and I am in NO way jealous of her because I happen to find even a small flirt at work from a friend quite frustrating. Like it's flattering but I think some times you have to be quite modest...I don't know. I'm very different to her.
I seriously don't know why any of this behavior bothers me. She tells me everything about her relationships and I'm truly touched that she trusts me to open up about her boy life but she's bouncing off one guy to the next.
She even dick teases which I think is so rude. She had 2 guys friends who were absolutely perfect for her. Fun, funny and adventurous, she treated these guys like boyfriends - flirting and whatever because she's "affectionate" and these poor guys fell in love with her and then the poo hit the ceiling fan because she doesn't want to date them and she flirts with them ahhhh.
I'm like what's wrong with this guy he is your perfect match! But anyway lol...
Sorry about the long rant...I don't know why any of this bothers me.