Girls: do you sit on the laps of male friends?

GIRLS: Do you sit on a guy's lap if you trust him? Or would you only sit on your lover's lap?
What are your thoughts on this? I find it a bit too forward and flirty myself. Why sit on a guy you're not interested in? But I'd like to hear your views too!

GIRL: I sit on laps of any guy I trust 548
GIRL: I would only sit on my lover's lap 440
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Comments ( 42 )
  • Sog

    Having a girl sit in my lap is an instant turn-on for obvious reasons. Not advisable if that's not your intent.

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    • oicuwantit2

      Im with Sog on this one...doesnt matter how innocent you are and the act is, I'm going to groove on it.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    Ech, no. Why would I wanna put my ass near the crotch of someone I wasn't intimate with?

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    • NeuroNeptunian

      This XD

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      • shade_ilmaendu

        It's not like I'm freaked out very much by physical contact with someone, I'll go for a friendly cuddle sometimes. but I don't just wanna casually sit myself somewhere awkward things might literally pop up. @.@

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    • Mmmpfh

      I like this logic.

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  • LizardSkin

    I keep my fly unzipped for this precise occasion.

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  • westoptic

    Sometimes I have, like when we all had to squash into a car and I ended up on one of my guy friends laps, but most of the time, no. Actually, my guy friends have probably sat in my lap more than I've sat in theirs lol if they can't find a seat they just sit down wherever they want.

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    • howaminotmyself

      I almost forgot about the squishing into a car factor. Being little usually puts me on someone's lap, male or female.

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      • shade_ilmaendu

        In that situation I just make sure to keep my ass as close to their knees as possible.. XD But usually I'm the one driving the car crammed with people

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  • dappled

    I'm a big fan of having someone sitting on my lap but it's only ever really happened with people who were interested in being more than friends. I'd be happy for a female friend to but, thinking about it, there is something more intimate about it than most friendships allow.

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  • Avant-Garde

    I don't sit on anyone's lap, but if I did I would only do it with a significant other. There's something quite "sensual" about sitting on someone's lap so, I think it would be inappropriate to do it with someone you aren't in a relationship with.

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  • DolphinDevil

    Sit on my lap you worthless whores.

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  • NotFloydzie

    Yes. I like laps.

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  • That being flirtation, no matter what your intent.

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  • Ugh69

    Seriously, one must take responsibility for their actions as well as the consequences.

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  • DameInDistress

    Erm, no. That's just..skettish.

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  • FocoUS

    Eh, I don't know how to handle this. If I was packed in a room and I sat on somebody's lap it wouldn't be a big deal but I don't casually sit in laps.

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  • Most bitches be tooooo heavy!

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    • robbieforgotpw

      Whatchu talkin' bout Willis?

      Are you spending a lot of time with "Large Marge"s or "Tugboat Telula"s?

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      • "Ginormous Gina"

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  • xxwrong-as-rainxx

    Guy or girl, my close friends and I will sit on each others laps every once in awhile. Its not flirty, more joking ^.^

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Only sluts and super sluts do this.

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  • januarycurse

    I wouldn't but depending on the circumstances I could see why some people would be more comfortable around each other so that they don't think twice about it.

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  • sebastiantheunicorn

    Hey! When someone steals my seat what do they expect me to do!? But were all good friends, no biggie.

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  • I can recall four doing it to me.

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  • theaverageatheist

    if he's a close friend yes, i often sit on my friends lap on the bus because there is no room. totaly normal to me.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    No.

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  • coffeebreath

    I don't do it. I'd rather stand or sit on the ground.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    unless it's as a joke... i can't imagine why someone would sit on someone else's lap... unless they wanted it to turn into something more.

    like "here i'll sit on your lap and see what pops up" kinda thing

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    • yesnomaybeso

      ..but i like it 0:)

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  • yesnomaybeso

    gosh i looooooove sitting on guys laps, i love love love love it hahaha.

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    • wanna sit on my lap?

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      • yesnomaybeso

        (i'm guessing you're male) haha does it make you (and your ...uhum) happy?

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        • you're such a tease lol

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          • yesnomaybeso

            haha i had always seen it like something I LIKE but it's uncomfortable for guys but i don't care and sit anyways. i mean, i had never thought a guy would actually want me to sit there.

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            • yesnomaybeso

              okay people here are saying that's for sluts but gosh!!! whats whorish about it?

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        • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin

          it makes me so happy sometimes a gun springs out of my pants

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  • dirtybirdy

    I have.

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