Girls: how do you masturbate?

I am a girl myself, so I am not just some pervert wanting to talk about this. Truth is, I think I am weird, because every time I want to masturbate, I cannot stand sticking something inside myself, and cannot really stimulate myself with my fingers. What I usually do is hug a pillow between my legs and hump it. IIN?

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I finger myself (clit or pussy) 744
I stick a dildo or other object inside my vagina 143
I am a guy, who just wants to see the results 493
I never masturbate, you weirdo! 40
I hump a pillow, or some other soft object 1016
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  • DameInDistress~

    Okay, this is how I do it and I get an orgasm every time.

    1- Rub around on the top of your panties quite slowly for a few minutes until you feel yourself getting wet.

    2-rub a bit faster but don't go underneath yet. You'll notice you'll get kind of a throbbing.

    3- Take off your panties and rub the actually v-jay slowly but don't touch the clit yet, even though you'll want to. Rub for about a minute

    4- Rub around your clit slowly and massage your boobs gently with your other hand. Do this for about 1-2 minutes

    5- start rubbing harder on your clit and use your other hand to circle your 'entrance' but don't go in yet.

    6- Slowly push one finger inside and go in and out, pressing it up inside.

    7- take 2 fingers and finger yourself faster. Rub your clit faster and move your hips in time with it.

    8- Keep doing this til you orgasm!

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  • graphic_nature

    I masturbate in an odd way.

    First I curl my hands into a cats-paw-like shape. Place one curled hand on top of the other and set them over my pussy, like right above the clit but not on top of. Then I lay on the ground (carpeted floor, bed's too soft) in a "planking" style and I rock back and forth to achieve orgasm. Though usually I'm watching porn instead of face-down. Sometimes I will put a vibrator in me if I feel like cumming faster, but not usually because cleaning it off is just work.

    If I'm masturbating for a guy to watch, I will lay on my back and flick a dildo in and out of me and fake an orgasm. I can't actually masturbate that way.

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    • Hmm, I wouldn't call that odd. I think what I do is odd, as it is usually overtop my underwear and/or pajama pants. I have a nice, big fluffy pillow that I use especially for this purpose. Like I said, I choke it between my legs, and hump it is a way that it stimulates both my clit and pussy. Okay, I have officially weirded myself out by typing all that.
      Of course, in front of a guy, it must be different. In fact, I have never told any guy I have been with how I masturbate, for fear they would find me too weird. If they want me to touch myself, I just rub down there, and fake orgasm. No big deal.
      Thanks for sharing! :)

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      • graphic_nature

        I do it over my underwear too :P And I never tell or show guys either. Even my boyfriend of three years doesn't exactly know how I do it. Our way of masturbating doesn't exactly look as sexy as they would expect

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        • Exactly. I mean, whenever I refer to pleasuring myself, my bf is like "omg, that's SO HOT!!!" And I'm just thinking, if you only knew...
          Glad I'm not alone. :)

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      • RozaEnora

        You have no idea how relieved I am to hear some else does this too. I am the same way down to the T! However, overtime I have been able to use sex toys to get me off, I have NEVER been able to use my hand and have always thought I was weird for this since that's what I thought everyone else did.
        I feel so much better knowing I'm not the only one haha

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      • luv2read

        Why

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        • Why what?

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          • luv2read

            Your be likes you masturbating so why not be open and honest about it.

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    • seabird_71

      ...I do this, too.

      I was actually amazed to see that you described it, literally, word for word as how I do it. I told my best friend once, and she laughed so hard she choked. So it's nice to see that I'm not the only one.

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    • HeyGirlHey16

      I put one of my hands in a fist and place it on my pussy. Then I put the other hand onto of that one and tighten my legs, and finally, I proceed to hump my hands. Usually I do this while lying down on my bed and over my panties or pants. Watching some porn or reading something erotic usually helps me get off.

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    • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

      Hmm I did that

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  • cbjchicka69

    I have done this since I was quite young like 8 years old and I don't know why but it feels really good to me I just take a blanket and ball it up and I lay on the floor (I think the bed is too soft) then I lay on it so it is right under my vagina then hold the blanket with both hands and watch porn close my eyes think of me and another person while having porn playing and start humping the blanket. Wierd but it usually makes me really wet.

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  • SDDA

    I used to take objects, usually this one stuffed animal, with hands tied together, and I would put the hands in the area. When this wasn't turning me on enough, I started using a stress ball. I've also taken a pillow, put it over the foot-board of my bed (it stands higher than the mattress) put the stress ball underneath and just moved around on top of it, my legs dangling. But ever since I started fingering myself, that's the only way I want to turn myself on now. Or, turning myself on with a tampon. I think that's the best. I feel like I'm being fingered as opposed to fingering myself. You focus more on what your vagina is feeling instead of your finger.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Oh I realized that I never actually answered...! *gasp*

    "I finger myself (clit or pussy)"

    That's pretty much me... using what's on hand - or rather what's on my hand. ;-)

    Usually it's just the clit though. Sometimes I include my pussy, and sometimes I use a vibrator, and I've used shower heads before too... but usually just my fingers.

    Unless of course I'm feeling *extra*-kinky, in which case I include the use of my lips and tongue... for rubbing over, sucking on, and licking at my own nipples.

    :-)~

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  • Elise007

    I just use my fingertip rubbing really fast on my clit. Usually I sit on the bed and then when I start to have an orgasm I will stand up and finish it that way.

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    • Papakinky74

      I would love to watch you do that

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    If you don't want to actually touch yourself with your fingers or insert things... try a massaging shower head. The kind you can pull down.

    Get it into a solid stream... you can use it for "penetration" or for clitoral stimulation. And it washes your cum away so you're left squeaky clean afterwards

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    • PizzaQueen

      lol that's like my favorite way to do it

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  • luv2read

    Ladies show your lover what gets you off. Perhaps if he does that for you your orgasm will be stronger. A relationship needs trust and communication.

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    • graphic_nature

      I agree in every other aspect but as far as how the Poll Creator and I masturbate, it's definitely a solo experience. Something a guy could never do for us even if he wanted too.

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  • Vulturesnest

    I've been searching all over to find out if anyone else masturbates the way I do. I remember starting to masturbate at around the age of 7, not knowing what I was doing but liking it. As an teenager I've realised it induced orgasm and I still masturbate like this as an adult. I feel really alone because I havn't found anyone who does this:
    I lay on my stomach and put my hand on my vagina, palm towards myself. Then i stimulate the sensitive skin between my clit and urethra by moving my index in up and down motions. I extend my legs as hard as I can and clench my butt.
    Has anyone ever heard of this?

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  • bostonpuckbunny37

    Haha I love talking about masturbating techniques this is awesome! I love using my shower head or like everyone else I love riding the fuck out of a pillow! Feels amazing! But usually it's just ass naked legs spread clit play! Best way to bring yourself to orgasm:)

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  • dude_Jones

    So ladies, what about the G-spot behind the pubic bone? We men take your comments very seriously. The sexual satisfaction of womankind is an important male obligation.

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  • maslover04

    I found this idea while searching around on google for new ways to masturbate because I get absolutely no pleasure form fingering myself. So I went to Walmart and just bought a cheap $3 electric toothbrush. And what I do is lay down on my back pretty much anywhere, in the shower, on my bed, wherever. and I use my finger first to get myself wet and i just rub my clitoris a little bit then I click on the tooth brush and just set it lightly on my clitoris. Then to make the orgasm actually come I tighten my inner thigh muscles. But lately this hasn't felt as good for me. lol so does any one have any masturbation tips?

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    • Does hugging a pillow, stuffed animal, or blanket between your legs and humping it not work for you? It is relaxing, at your own pace, and you can have fun with your own fantasies...

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      • Lifesimmer

        Yes, humping a pillow gives me orgasms

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      • bunnygirl

        I used to do that all the time, but it doesn't workanymore for me. I'm going to try dameindistress's way. .. hmm

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  • Applepie103

    I feel weird saying this bit I've never fingers myself before. All I do is place the palm of my hand on my vagina and lay down on my bed. The pressure stimulates my clitoris and my vagina. My calves clench a lot and I'm kind of worried about it. Sometimes I hurt my clitoris and I think it's because of the way I masturbate.

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  • vidiavalidia

    I've pretty much always masturbated through my underwear, even lightly through my actual clothes (shorts, pants, etc) and I've always done it the same way. I didn't choose the "hump a pillow" option because the way I do it doesn't actually involve any hip movement. What I do is I hold my right hand curved a bit like how you would hold a sock puppet, but with the fingertips curved slightly more inward, and then I place my left hand over that. I hold the right hand so it's curved over my vulva and usually pointing directly downward at the area where my vulva/vagina is, with my thumb kind of nestled where my clit area is and up against the pubic bone. (And because the left hand is over the right hand, the right hand is doing most of he work.) And then I just rock my hand. Pretty fast. To describe the motion I'd say I kind of make that "come here" motion with my first 3 fingers, while rocking the right hand and I set up a kind of vibration for myself just with that speed. I swear it's not clinical like I have to remember steps or anything- this is just what comes naturally and makes me feel good.

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  • mgy

    I've tried lots of different ways but now I ALWAYS do it through my underwear, starting off just slowly and very very gently brushing my clit and gradually building the pressure until i'm stroking it & sort of dragging the material over it and eventually rubbing it with more pressure in a circular motion. Now I can't get off the other way. I've never really felt that much pleasure touching my clit directly and it's so frustrating when i'm with a guy because no matter what he does, it just doesn't work. Plus, I find it really difficult to get the right sensation unless i'm laying on my side. So with a guy, it's not really going to look all that great. The other frustrating thing is that I pretty much lose all sensation if my clit gets wet, - it's like I need the friction from the material? Which again, is incredibly annoying during sex.

    The great thing about it though is that I can get myself to the verge of orgasm within five minutes or so and then I can just keep myself on that edge for as long as I want - plus it's not very strenuous so can do it for much longer. Then i'll just insert a finger or two gently, just barely moving them, to take me over the edge.

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  • CucumberDuck

    Ok how I masturbate is I get really horny and then I go lay on my bed. Next I take my baby blanket and role it up and stick it between my legs like a dick. I then lay on my side and grind on it. It feels really hot!! I like to change positions and try to keep putting the cool part of the blanket between my legs! Then I either read sexual fantasies or make one up! I've always wanted to try it with my fingers but I feel like I'm never doing it right! I can never come that way! Suggestions???

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  • YetAnotherAccount

    I rub my g-spot, seriously, you get the most intense orgasms that way.

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  • Lifesimmer

    Fold your pillow in half and hump the pointy bit and it gives u orgasms

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  • Chicagal

    I normally use the shower head on my clit It is amazing

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  • bari

    im a guy, i hump my pillow when i get horny or i just masturbate

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    • CucumberDuck

      Hot!

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  • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

    I use my index finger to masturbaste but my middle finger to stick it in there

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  • justasking1982

    I usually take a blanket and roll a part of it into a ball and put it in between my legs and move around because it stimulates my clit. Sometimes I lay in front of my mirror with no panties and I spread my labia and expose my clit and rub it in circles with one finger as if my clit and finger are chasing eachother in circles. Just watching myself in the mirror turns me on, I promise I'm not a perv. I used to never use my fingers but I realized I can bring myself to orgasm that way too. I never finger myself, when I masturbate its all about the clit!

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    • luv2read

      Good luck on finding a girl. I like how detailed you are. I wouldn't guess that you are shy.

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  • luv2read

    Your saying if you should him it wouldn't work. Or are you talking about physiology it wouldn't work

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    • graphic_nature

      I mean physically it's a one-person task. I've showed my boyfriend ways that stimulate me similarly but it's not the same.
      Lets say (if you're a guy) you masturbate using a hole in a certain stuffed animal. You show your girl fabrics you like that are similar feeling to the stuffed animal but you never tell her about the stuffed animal specifically because it's embarrassing. That's sort of like it, except the difference being if you told your gf you like the stuffed animal and she accepted it, she could use it to pleasure you, which my bf could never pleasure me the way I masturbate. Not only is it a little embarrassing to demonstrate because it's out of the ordinary, but it would be very hard to replicate not using my own hands.

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      • dude_Jones

        I give my girlfriend multiple orgasms with my fingers. She says I give her wonderful feelings she can't replicate herself. It took months of coaching from her. Put your moistened finger on your boyfriend's wet lips to show him the right amount of pressure. Be patient. He won't become a sexual virtuoso overnight.

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