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Lets say you have an eye on guy but then you decide to give him your number without him asking for it and say something like "text me sometime".If he's interested he'll follow up?If he doesn't then he's not interested?Does giving a guy your number without him asking for it a better way to gauge his interest?
Wish more women (presumably, you may be a guy) were like you. It gets boring always making the first move.
I'm female and I'm thinking of giving to give a guy my number and say text me sometime and let him take it from there
Go for it. At worst, he won't text you. At best, he will be stoked that you are interested in him and that he didn't have to go through all the hoop jumping guys normally go through to find out if a girl is actually interested - and you'll have a great relationship.
Most men absolutely appreciate women that are brave enough to make the first move. Unfortunately, men almost always have to deal with that bit of unpleasantly, so good for you for putting yourself out there. Even if the guy isn't interested, I'm sure he will appreciate the compliment.
Men in general don't think in terms of appreciation like that, men aren't women and compliments don't really mean shit to them. A man could possibly be turned off by the gesture depending on how it was done. If she did it in a tastefully insecure manner that'd be ok.
Then why are you telling everyone about Shelly from the Circke K?
You're not in touch with reality.
Shelly from the convenience store I was working did it in a tastefully insecure manner which I find acceptable but just because I didn't respond to her inquiry doesn't mean anything more or less then I simply didn't respond.
(Last account ran out of karma so I shitcan them at this point. Sorry for the inconvenience and feel free to respond to this one if applicable.)
P.I.S.S What makes you think I'm so out of touch with reality, are you kidding me?
Should end well. Most women are too afraid of risk to initiate. That boldness will take you far in all areas of your life.
If someone just gave me there number out of the blue like that the text they would probably get later would be along the lines of, umm hello?
That is totally awesome you did that, wish it was me you gave it to,it makes people feel good knowing someone thought you were good looking
A cashier gave me her number once. She was totally not my type and I never contacted her but it was nice that a girl liked me enough to do what girls never seem to do.
If you don't want me to text you for sex talk to me first. Introduce yourself say hi.
That's a good way to gauge his interest by just flat out giving him your phone number but says more about your interest in him which is fine and dandy. I've had a BITCH do that to me once named Shelly she walked into the store I was working and put the piece of paper with her name and phone number on it and left without saying a word. I never texted nor called and never saw her again.