Has age made you crankier or kinder

I used to be somebody who would put my needs lasts, but being foolish enough to get burn, I decided to become cranky.

Kinder 17
Crankier 22
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  • brutus

    Crankier to people, kinder to animals.

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    • spunkluvr

      Me too.

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  • RandomInternetGuru

    Kinder based upon knowledge gained.
    Crankier based upon knowledge gained.

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    • PeterFalk

      My thoughts exactly. Nobody could have said it better

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  • Indigo1

    -Crankier with ability/patience to put up with bullshit

    -Kinder with ability to help people, "teaching to fish rather than giving a fish"

    -Crankier with probably being a tiny bit more stubborn/solidified in my beliefs

    -Kinder with having a little more understanding for what someone is going through

    -Crankier with having a little less hope and rose colored glasses view of the world

    That's 3 cranky points and 2 kind points.. so I guess CRANKIER but it's only a few notches in that direction down the spectrum, Im still a rather empathetic and kind individual.
    I'm still quite young as well and I suppose only time will tell if i keep moving in that direction to a point where the scale starts to tip toward the cranky old fart side ;0

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  • Holzman_67

    It’s a mixture of both I find. I’m in pain/tired/overwhelmed more often which tends to make me crankier but I’m also softer, I appreciate little things more, friendships seem deeper and I have a greater wisdom of people and empathy towards their pain

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  • BleedingPain

    Most children (in first world countries) are oblivious to the issues we face as adults. I believe I was a kind child, and still am, but I understand why people become bitter and cranky.

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  • McBean

    Much more kind. I have also become very selective making friends. This selectiveness sidesteps crankiness real well.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    With age you learn not to make decisions when you're emotional. That helps a lot.

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  • Ellenna

    Both: I have much less tolerance for people who let me down, lie or listen to lies about me and believe them without checking and generally people who waste my time and/or energy.

    I'm kinder to people I'm close to and more patient with them than I used to be.

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  • curious-bunny

    Both

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  • LloydAsher

    Both, I'm a big time pessimist wrapped in a thin chewy layer of optimism.

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  • CountessDouche

    Much kinder, actually.

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  • dimwitted

    Both. I have more compassion for my elders and those that are distraught. On the other hand I don't tolerate fools and liars.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Both.

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