Has anyone have/had a friend like this

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So I have a friend who doesn't treat me like I treat her. For example, she was invited to my birthday about 2 months ago, but her boyfriend invited her to go camping. As a good friend I encouraged her to go camping with her boyfriend. This weekend is her birthday and I got invited to go camping with my boyfriend. I felt bad and said that I am celebrating her birthday earlier. Instead of being encouraging, she said "Some friend you are" and acting selfish about it. Should I get rid of the friendship, or is there another way to solve this dilemma

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  • Annie25
    6 years ago

    Ending it seems a drastic step. Instead just treat her as a casual friend and dont expect something great in return. I'd say shes not qualified to be the ultimate best friend a person wants. She is no doubt selfish and these are the type of people we need to stay away from. These are the type of people who stick around your happiest moment and leave you when you actually need a shoulder. Just dont trust her. Simple.

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  • bob7
    6 years ago

    Get rid of a friendship because of that reason ? Holy fuck

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    • LOLFanProductions
      6 years ago

      It's not just that, whenever our plans get changed she gets upset and questions our friendship. BTW, when we make plans it rarely changes.

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      • bob7
        6 years ago

        Still not worth it !

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  • Tealights
    6 years ago

    End the friendship, she too selfish and only see herself primarily in every type of relationship.

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  • Poisonous-Cupcakes
    6 years ago

    She's not worth your time

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  • Kevinevan
    6 years ago

    I don't see the dilemma. If you dont like her end the friendship. Her comment doesn't sound to extreme tho.

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  • nobodynose
    6 years ago

    just go camping.....why would end a friendship over one comment that you didn't like. Yeah she's wrong but people are selfish beings get over it

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    • LOLFanProductions
      6 years ago

      That's not the only situation. Whenever we make plans and somehow it changes she loses it

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      • nobodynose
        6 years ago

        try explaining that the behavior upsets you and is irrational. If it continues you have to decide if the friendship is worth dealing with this

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        • JonathanOo
          6 years ago

          Maybe she has a mental issue or disorder? Some people are like that. You either accept them or not

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  • Ratmanisback
    6 years ago

    What you do is eat a whole piazza with anchovies, garlic and lots of onions. Then wash it down with warm German beer. Then fart in her face. Friend no more!

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