Haven't had any relationship yet

I'm 25 years old and haven't had any romantic relationship so far. It's the only thing I miss to be really happy in my life, but every time I find a girl I can imagine being within a close relationship, she already has a boyfriend or she's not into me... And in some cases, I got told, that I'm too nice.

I have a really good relationship with friends. I'm best friend with one fella for almost 15 years now and second-best friend for 9 years, so I think I would be a good and loyal boyfriend.

I also haven't had sex yet, cause I'm waiting for the right girl, which I would be in love with or at least really like her.

Do I really have to play these silly games, like keep the girl waiting for my text and play kinda like a bad boy to get her? Does anybody have the same story?

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  • DeletThis

    "too nice" is sometimes a nice way of saying you're boring. No one is nice 100% of the time, so it usually seems fake or dull if you are. I'm not saying be an asshole but just act like you would around any other person, don't try to be overly nice just because you want her to like you.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Sometimes I think relationships are overrated. It all depends on the relationship itself, and the person with whom one is having said relationship. It's better to be alone than with the wrong person! It's better to be lonely when you're by yourself, than to feel lonely with another person.

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  • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet

    Same but unlike you I don't crave one.

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  • mouldiwarp

    I’m 18 and haven’t been in a relationship or had sex

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