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So, for some reason i have no clue why, but when i was ten i stopped having birthday parties. I am twenty now. I'm just lost about if i should or shouldnt. Is this normal?
I hate my birthdays, don't remember how young I was when I started hating them. it's on the same day as my uncles and we always go out for dinner. it's nice to see my family but my birthday is just another day of the year for me. sometimes I wish we could all spend time together on dates where we weren't obliged for something stupid.
I never had birthday parties when I was young. I only ever held a party for my 18th.
I hated my birthday. I'd literally LOCK myself in a closet on my birthday. But now, I've learned to respect my birthday.
But i dont have birthday parties.
My last fun birthday party was when I was about 6. After that they just felt silly to me. I particularly hate it when they do birthdays at work. People don't even like each other, and here they are carrying on fakely like they do, with these silly traditions just because people like cake. It can be a lot of work that falls to just some of the people because half the people think it's stupid and won't participate. I never tell anybody when my birthday is and I avoid B-day parties with siblings. We just celebrate my parents B-days because we would feel guilty otherwise for some reason.
I last had it when i was 12. I feel a bit left out when i don't make it. My bornday doesn2 feel worthy without a birthday party
I had my last birthday party when I was 3, so it's absolutely normal. If you want a birthday party now, go forward!