Having a flirt online ? is it normal

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Kind of new to the whole boy scene as I’ve always avoided them. Recently joined a casual dating site and I meet someone I like then chat to them and flirt, a few I add on snapchat. I’ve havent been speaking to anyone and most I forget about when it fizzles out...

When it was my birthday on snapchat one guy said happy birthday! And anyway we got chatting and he asked me if I wanted a treat I say yes ! Anyway it was his 6 pack... after that day we had been having a few cheeky flirts and sexts andim just having fun... but I wouldn’t meet for a hookup... so I told him. I said I’m sorry I don’t want to lead you on but I’m not looking for hookups but for a relationship.... in the long run..

His reply was I’m not either but I get where you are coming from but I’ll leave you too it.

Now guess what? I can’t stop fucking thinking about him. He was a gentleman too he said if we ever did meet there would be no pressure.
So yeh now I feel like shit.
And I want him to send me a cheeky selfie.
I did apologise and I have sent him a couple of snaps today but not much reply.

I don’t know how to fix this?

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    so much fucking online drama. did you ever stop to think his picture was fake ? and instead of a six pack he has a beer belly? when you read a book is it real? did you experience it? fuck no , that what the internet is , its a book thats all.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Just keep on chatting casually and see if he's interested in something more serious as the days go by.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Not really chatting and I feel awkward

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      • [Old Memory]
        6 years ago

        Take a chance and talk to him. It's online and you're safe.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          But I kind of put him off.

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          • [Old Memory]
            6 years ago

            Perhaps you need to be more assertive.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              6 years ago

              Send him a raunchy pic

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          • [Old Memory]
            6 years ago

            Gentlemen don’t sext. So your shit may also be available online.

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