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Whenever I visit a friend of mine, there's a high chance that when I sleep over I dream about the friend and I having sex. I am not sexually attracted to this friend AT ALL. Whenever I wake up I feel ashamed and disgusted.
I find it really gross and I just want it to stop happening. Does this happen to anyone else???
It's literally impossible to control the content of dreams. Even people who have taught themselves to be lucid dreamers don't have complete control. Worrying about what you dream about is pointless.
The dream can mean you wish to be more intimate with this friend on a non-sexual level, such as being more open and vunerable with each other. Dreams are not literal.
Having sex dreams about people you’re not attracted to is just an awkward fact of life. You haven’t done anything wrong and have nothing to be ashamed of. The dreams will stop eventually.
Ummm..... buddy... are you sure? You sure you have zero sexual interest in this person? Because your subconscious mind keeps saying otherwise.
And why would it be disgusting? They seem to be a nice person. They are your friend, probably of a similar age. They're not related to you. You have a bond of trust and respect with them. It's normal to develop feelings for someone who is kind and (probably) good looking.
Time to re-evaluate your feelings for them. It's perfectly fine if those feelings are romantic. That doesn't make you disgusting. No way.
Of course it can be difficult if those feelings are not mutual. But at least be honest with yourself about how you feel. It feels better when you can accept all of your internal world without being disgusted at yourself for something that is natural and normal. Love is not disgusting.
I just want to know how to have a dream where I actually get to have sex.