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He's literally in one with me right now.. we hug, hold hands, cuddle, go to dinner and a movie, spend every other day with each other, he tells me I'm sexy or adorable and we laugh like hyenas when we're together but he doesn't want a relationship... I'm confused men confuse me
Some people don't want relationships. Some people simply want friends with benefits.
Stop seeing him then. Why would he enter a relationship when you give him everything without him having to commit fully to one? Tell him that a relationship is what you want so if that's not for him then you're out.
No matter how you look at it things aren't good. Saying that shows no consideration for your feelings given his willingness to enjoy the pleasures of a relationship without the commitment to actually being in one. He can flirt or sleep with anyone when you're not around. Or could simply meet someone and choose to be with them. Ultimately nothing about this bodes well for you or your current lifestyle with him. For your own sake, it's important you consider what your own needs are. You'd be devaluing yourself pursuing this sort of life without being in a mutually comitted relationship.
That sounds like an excuse to cheat. He'll say you can't get mad at him for being with other girls because he was never committed to you in the first place. Even if this isn't his intention, it's still pretty weird for him to treat you like that but not want to say you guys are in a relationship. I'd say leave and find someone who will actually commit to you and let you be their special one. Guys with commitment issues, as charming as they can be, are dangerous. It's better to cut him off now than to have even more pain when he cheats or you fall in love with him and he flees. Best of luck
Stop said situationship? didn’t want to call it a relationship if it’s not considered one. Idk you can either make terms with it or leave. Sounds like a have cake and eat it too without the admitting of having both. Do what’s best for you, sounds more like it bothers you. Put your foot down and if it doesn’t work out, ooooon to the next.
he doesn't want commitment. He wants a relationship without the disadvantages. Nothing wrong with that.
Maybe he just wants to be friends but is not ready to have a relationship yet.