Hell - pp i am indecisive. i believe there are multiple paths...

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I am indecisive to its extreme. I will suffer/ starve/ sit still forever(what's the long term word for this? Not asphixation, but...?) Until I decide!!
I can't decide because I like both ways. I'm moving to a new state, and I like both states(Az vs. Co). Dramatically opposite- I finally decide on one! Please help me with tips on decisions!! Somtimes I won't decide until its too late!! I sacrifice so much even time and years over decisions being changed altered undecided etc. I waste time sitting immobile or doing something dumb until I decide. Its like I am not even in my body. HELP

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  • iamrite
    11 years ago

    I'm glad ur a talker I need that.
    Another thing is even tho I agree with you, I'm a spiritual person and sometimes maybe I get lost cus I can't see... but we are not expected to see the future.
    And then I base my decisions on predispositional future expectations...

    Helll pp this is night marish
    I wish I could turn of my future part of the brain
    But if that's off then I need some type of educational sense and that's off too
    Its seem s that I am searching answeres for everything these days

    !!!!! When the answer is in my soul/spirit

    Any active advice u can give me? Like practical in the situation advice?

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  • iamrite
    11 years ago

    is it okay to let your consequences choose for you?

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  • iamrite
    11 years ago

    I luv that: indecision is its own kind of decision

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  • ProseAthlete
    11 years ago

    Indecision is its own kind of decision. By refusing to make a choice, you let circumstances make your choices for you, probably because you don't want to face the possible consequences of choosing "wrong."

    It may help you to know that in most cases, you can't make a wrong choice. Psychologists studied how people make decisions, and they found that when presented with two roughly equal choices -- AZ or CO, chicken or fish, any two fairly equivalent options -- people would rationalize their choice after the fact and declare it the "right" choice about 85 percent of the time.

    In other words, just by making a choice, that choice becomes the right choice. You don't have to fear making a wrong decision because your brain will automatically make any decision you make feel like a good one -- well, unless it's a really stupid choice like "Meth? Hmm, I don't really need my teeth or my job, so sure, I'll try it!"

    Find out what makes you paralyzed when you need to make a choice, and you'll be a step closer to ending that paralysis. Start small and look at decision-making as a reward for making a right choice, not as potential punishment for a "wrong" choice.

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    • iamrite
      11 years ago

      This is 100% true... I jus keep 4getting it.
      What about... a choice like to have a convo with someone or to just Not have the convo with someone? In this case id say its find your disposition and reason for doing so or don't do it... do you have any helps with this?

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      • ProseAthlete
        11 years ago

        Hmm, I don't really have any specific advice for that, but I usually find it easier to talk than not to talk. Just look at the length of my post and you can see I talk a lot. :)

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        • iamrite
          11 years ago

          Ov course but in my lifes experience its brought me HELL, so now I'm careful

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  • iamrite
    11 years ago

    Ummmm what if I can't

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  • howaminotmyself
    11 years ago

    Flip a coin.

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    • iamrite
      11 years ago

      Booo 2 u most definitely

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      • howaminotmyself
        11 years ago

        There is no need to be rude.

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      11 years ago

      That's what I was going to say. If all else fails, leave it to chance. That's how I chose to change my major.

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      • iamrite
        11 years ago

        Booooo. Syke

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