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Ok so I've been ready for a while now but I don't know how to tell someone I want to have sex with them without flat out saying it and feel the pain of rejection, could someone help me withthis?
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If ur a girl...act desperate then he will think he doing you a favour. It turns me on when girls are begging for it.
Just ask them. Nothing is better. Honesty takes the cake. That way everyone knows exactly what they want.
With each person, it's different, but whether you're a boy or a girl is a decisive factor. Chances are, you'll screw it up a few times before finding what works for you. Don't worry. It's part of the learning process.
ask them over to your place and say "I'm drying to make long sweet love to you"
Okay heres one it should work , take them out on a date and everytime you don, while driving in the car , put your hand on their thigh , each time go higher and higher , and when u reach the top , ask her to have sex ( or FUCK ) if she declines, try this : You say " Hey there " He/She say : " Yes wassup " You say : " Why the fuck arent u in my bed giving me head " he/she say : " *speechless * " You guide he/she up stairs and get cha freak on/in lmfaoo !! :D hoped it worked
Leave a pile of condoms on the bed. Leave some sexy lotion in his bag. Hang some fuzzy hand cuffs on the door and when they ask say "You have to figure it out".
you want to know what the girls would like to know is the size of your dick thats all.
i've tried all of those you have.but what i can tell you is don't Just tell them
Omfg you sound like your fucking 14, obviously you don't need to be having sex -______-
Erogenous zones, make them think that they want it, so fingers through hair when kissing, run fingers behind ear (careful as some just find this too ticklish) kiss/bite/breathe into the ear. kiss neck, collarbone if you get this far play with nipples, gently brush your fingers over the bottom of their stomach towards their hipbone, tickle inner thigh (legs have to be exposed obviously) lol. But yeah erogenous zones get them horny and make them think they want it, also this foreplay will make a woman more likely to have an orgasm, especially if you spend a while licking her out too. What i've learnt to do is control when I cum, I'm not sure how but I can really go for it and not nut until i decide to, this way i can make sure she gets off too, women who don't get satisfied during sex are less likely to want it again, also cumming at the same time...an experience you should have at least once it;s worth it...might wanna have spare sheets ready though lol
You aren't clear whether or not the person you intend to speak with is the object of your horniness. That said, most people find conversation eventually gets around to relationships (including sexual). I'll leave the rest up to you to figure out from there.
Just say...so um you wanna do something? If your pretty they'll be like hell yeah I was just too scared to ask...believe me I'm living proof
There are some ok ones here I can see. But mostly there just silly and mostly unworthy of speaking of. Now the lady who said to have longer eye contact is a very good one. I like to try the one where it depends on how much intelligence they may have or may not. I will look into the eyes and keep a long soft stare, and slightly smile while slowly and I mean very slowly rubbing your lips with just the tip of your tongue slightly. Then as they look into your eys drop your eyes into ther mouth and keep a very small smile going and as they talk ignore them and say to them;"oh I am so sorry I was off into another world", The ones who are smart will ask what kind dream?, the idiots will just look stupid at you and roll there eyes.When they ask you about the dream>This is the moment to just tell them about what you would love do or want to eat on them!!
Look drop a few hints and watch a movie with your partner with at least one sex scene you will like to try and when you are watching just say I wouldn't mind having a go at that.
Stay real close to that person, try to keep staring them in the eyes and try starting an intimate conversation that leads to it... works for me.
the art of flirting. Although most flirting is innocent, if you persue enough, maybe they will want to get with you!
longer than normal eye contact. play-hit them. laugh at all their jokes. stay near them more than normal. tease them.
(I'm assuming the OP is a girl)
Most guys don't respond to that. That's not sexy. That says "I'm looking for a relationship."
Not that there's anything wrong with wanting a real relationship with somebody you want to have sex with, obviously, but the original post says nothing about a relationship. Just sex.
you must not know what i'm talking about then because all of that can definitely be sexy.