How do i bring up the subject of crossdressing in dating?

The only sexual fantasies that have ever really appealed to me are crossdressing and pegging. I don't really get off on the idea of anything else but I still feel normal emotional ties and needs so I want to find someone who's ok with that but I don't know how to bring it up and I don't want to be abandoned because of them. And what should do I do if I like someone and they're not into it?

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety

    Yet another crossdressing post that has been posted a thousand times. Can't wait for the next one.

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  • sweetone89

    Remember, the right person will never abandon you. Maybe you feel awkward saying it out loud? Maybe you and your sexual partner could write out your fantasies for the other to read?

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    • i'm just not sure about how to bring it up at all or when the best time is to

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      • sweetone89

        Do it when you feel comfortable. How close are you to your partner?

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        • i don't have anyone yet i'm just worried about it

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  • maybe I can make it less weird by choosing a character. i feel like I'd be cute as alice in wonderland.

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  • Lusty-Argonian

    I'd suggest just being straight about it a few dates in after they've gotten around to knowing you. Some are into it but most will not be. If you like guys at all that'd be an easier path for dating but dating women will just harder because of it

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  • Curiouskitten444

    I would wait until date 3 to disclose that. The way I would go about it would be to play a game of "what's your freakiest kink?"

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    when she asks if you have any hobbies tell her youre in a j edgar hoover reenactment club

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  • bigbudchonger

    You don't man, because your chance of attracting a mate with such perverse measures are close to 0

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    • My main worry is that the only women into it are promiscuous and non-committal. There are obviously women into this but most I've heard of are not really the relationship types.

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    • Lusty-Argonian

      Perverse measures? Please elaborate im curious what you mean exactly

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      • bigbudchonger

        The guy likes getting fucked up the arse with a strap-on whilst wearing women's clothing.

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        • i also like long walks on the beaches gazing at the stars and cuddling. i'm hoping it at least cancels out to at least neutral.

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        • Lusty-Argonian

          This conversation was alot more fun in my head

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          • bigbudchonger

            lmao, well your name is Lusty Argonian. I've read most of the elder scrolls books you know

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            • Lusty-Argonian

              I plead the 5th

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