How do i get over my unusual and creepy racial fetish?

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Let me preface this by saying that I've always had a thing for bad boys. Not that unusual, right?

However, for the last few months (maybe even years?) I've been having quite... politically incorrect fantasies. To sum it up, I've been dreaming about East Asian (Chinese/Japanese/Korean, you know the drill) men degrading or even raping (and I do mean rape) me in the worst ways. Especially if they're older than me (I'm in my early twenties) and with a criminal record. I'm a half French, half Arab woman, but I still look white to most people.

It's gotten so bad that I can't even look at a Far Eastern male (whether in real life or picture / film, even video game characters) without me imagining him doing disgusting and dirty things to me. I can still find men of other races handsome, but not to this extent.

As far as I remember, I do NOT have a history of sexual abuse by anyone. So where did this come from and how do I get over it? I don't actually mind being mostly attracted to Asians, but I do want to interact with them like a normal person, not like a racist sex pest.

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  • have_a_good_day
    3 years ago

    Hoe, you got a great style of writing. It ain't boring to read yo shit.

    I don't understand how a jap gonna be raping you though.. Those mothafuckas got lil dicks. It'll feel like a cocktail vienna is aggressively hugging yo pussy.

    But you do you, fam. That's what's up

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    We cannot help who we are attracted to and there’s nothing wrong with enjoying this fetish in private.

    Perhaps when you see a South East Asian man you become so worried that you will be unable not to sexualise him that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy?

    My advice is basically to relax, accept that you have this fetish and it’s nothing to feel guilty about. Perhaps once the shame subsides so will the obsession and you can view South East Asian men as you would other men (well most of the time...)

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  • LloydAsher
    3 years ago

    Seeing how inbred the middle east is a healthy sexual dislike of your own race can only do you good.

    And if you want to call my bullshit it is estimated that nearly 1/2 of the entire Muslim world is inbred. This is mostly done through cousin marriages, this still doesnt make that shit right.

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  • [Old Memory]
    3 years ago

    Its normal.

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  • my_life_my_way
    3 years ago

    It’s not racist to have a racial preference in sex and dating and as far as the rape fantasies go, it’s the most common sexual fantasy for women. You seem pretty normal, just don’t make your fantasies public and you should be fine.

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    • SkullsNRoses
      3 years ago

      I have a question for you my_life, do you have rape fantasies because you feel if you were raped it would absolve you of any “guilt” for having sex as it wouldn’t be your “fault”?

      There’s no right or wrong answer, I’m curious.

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      • my_life_my_way
        3 years ago

        No, I don’t believe having sex is anything you should feel guilty for. Sex is not a big deal, it’s just a part of life. I have had sex plenty of times without any kind of BDSM fantasy involved.

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