How do i get the black guys to stop approaching me?

it seems they dont know how to approach a woman. Anyway for the most part, I dress appropriately.... light on the makeup, hair style has been compared to aaliyah's a lot, (NO cleavege, NO tight clothing, hardly any skin showing, sunglasses ON, behind is COVERED, flat shoes or tennis shoes(EVEN THOUGH I PREFER HEELS :(..), NO smile on my face but they still approach me!! ERRRGGH I find black men in general very aggessive most of the time, rude to women, most of the times not articulate except for the ones that went to college a bit, and not good with sticking around to help raise their kids which has caused me to not desire them as a romantic partner, and what makes it even worse is that they have the nerves to come at me usually by saying, "A!" or "AY bay-bee!" or "How you doin?" most of the times when they try to get my attention. Dont they realize that just because I'm black it doesnt mean that I like that stupid uneducated mess and nonsense they pull out? Its like gotten to the point where now I feel compelled to stop ignoring it and just say, SHUT UP LOSER! lol. (Not trying to be rude)

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Comments ( 28 )
  • KeepsakeDoll

    Wear a white robe and a pointy hat.

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    • xCol

      Rude. xD

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      • KeepsakeDoll

        They asked for advice so I gave them one. >.>

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        • xCol

          Fair enough. ;)

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  • Tystick

    Im white and I used to live in the hood. I used to have crack hoars hit on me all the time just walking to the store or to work or something. I always used to tell them you might not want to be seen with me the cops stop me all the time thinking im a crackhead.

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    • NobodyKnows

      I gotta try that!

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  • OtherSide

    Be a cop.

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  • VinnyB

    So, just to clarify... are you saying that you are the only black person on the planet that isn't a "stupid uneducated mess", or are you saying that just about black men, but black women, such as yourself are fine?

    I am only asking because I want to know the exact depths of your racism. And yes, a person can be racist against there own race. Racism is about hatred and bigotry. Just like a person can hate themselves, they can also hate their race.

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  • modernism

    There's no problem if you don't feel attracted to black men physically, but there is a problem when you generalize a specific race and gender on their personality.

    You should re-word the question as, "How do I get vulgar people to stop romantically approaching me?". Don't specifically attack men according to their race because unless you have met "MOST" of the black men on Earth, you have no right to do so.

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    • Riddler

      ^ This, you do seem to have a valid problem but it seems a little racist to single out an entire race. I can assume the black men you keep attracting are hood rat and probably not from the nicest area. Also people with the type of attitude these men seem to have probably dont care how much skin you show just that you are female.

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  • (s)aint

    I agree with you. I would never date a black/colored man and absolutely not a muslim (Or anyone else that was religious for that matter)
    Sure not even the majority are bad but I am neither attracted to nor feeling the desire to take my chances with these type of men.

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  • Neuro42

    I know right?! People noticing you is just the worst!

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  • NobodyKnows

    Un-professional middle aged black men are horny 24/7. You can't do anything about it. Just avoid eye contact and don't speak to them.

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  • Aries

    considering they can't read your mind .. there is not much you can do if they approach you especially to be the same race . The white robe and pointed hat might not be a bad idea ... seriously though? how else would you deter your own race just because you don't like them?

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  • Sir_Lips

    You are obviously gorgeous, or have a big butt lol. My last gf had an amazing ass, and she was approached by a lot of black guys. Im not being racial its just the statistics. The best thing to is get a bf to watch your back literally lol, or just ignore it.

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    • NobodyKnows

      Um no. I'm ugly as piss and creepy middle aged men both black and white hit on me. In fact being ugly may be worse cuz then they think you're more desperate and gullible.

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  • mrheatman

    Simple answer: don't hang out in environments were "hood rat black men live." chances are you will get approached by "respectful"men of any race if you hang out in environments were respectful man thrive. If you find yourself hanging out in places were ghetto black men are, you are going to get approached. Simple as that. FYI I'M a black male that find its hard to be attached to ghetto black girls lol

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

    Tell them they're only worth your time if they can answer this riddle.

    "When's a donkey spelled with one letter?". "When it's U".

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  • harddrystickysocks

    Lol.

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  • Angelmikeal

    You Are Unbelievable U Would Judge All Black Men Based On The Acts Of A Few We Are Not Equal Ok All Men Are Not Equal If U Believe That Black Men Are The Same Then What About Your Dad Or Did Your Mom Marry A White Man. Look Am Not Trying To Dis U But Dont Judge Us Like That It Really Hurts Coming From A Black Lady.

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    • idontcareforthem

      I never said all black men were the same. I never put down educated black men. I just liked to be approached and treated with respect. I'm a grown, neatly dressed and educated woman who does not go looking for attention. I dont walk around looking, "ratchet" or "ghetto." I dress neat, appropriate, and conservative for the most part. I dont enjoy being disrespected if i choose to ignore their advances either...its really abusive. I wonder if I was white or asian, if I would be approached with more respect, no offense to you or educated black men..

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  • Angelmikeal

    You Are Gonna Be Alone For A Long Time Or Get Divorced Pretty Quickly

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    • idontcareforthem

      Nope you are VERY wrong. Look you are obviously offended..so I guess you are one of those types im speaking about. Im not your, "bay-bee" or "shawty" I dont like being disrespected by them or you...the more you respond, the more I see you are an example. Angelmikeal would you like to go to another forum beacuse I'll tell you something right now, my opinion isnt changing. So stop wasting you time. You said what you said and its not need to rant on and keep proving me right :)

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  • kelili

    My girl you should seek treatment.

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    • idontcareforthem

      Treatment with what exactly? If I find their advances repulsive most of the time then I have a right to feel what I feel. I dont enjoy being disrespected. Maybe you do

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      • mlbryan44

        Listen, you cocksucker don't bother Kelili, understand?

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  • TrustMeImLying

    My spidey sense tells me you love the attention. It's either that or this is a pretty inane problem. Your choice

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    • idontcareforthem

      My spidey sense tells me you might be one of "them" im complaining about...either that or you arent real...

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