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How so you get closure from something that was out of your control?
How do you find closure? I feel it'd have to be from that one person who causes u the pain in the first place but what if u can't get it from them ...?
You have to gain it from the other person? PS how come you're always on here lol
Well, sometimes the other person is unavailable, or unwilling to make contact. Also sometimes the other person is toxic, and it would be unhealthy to reconnect. It is possible to gain closure on one's own. Time also helps.
We are powerless over other people, and their thoughts, emotions and actions. You can't make a person give you closure, it doesn't work that way.
...and no, I'm not ALWAYS on here.
Okay but I still personally feel that the only way to seek closure is by getting truthful answers, and it would have to be from the person which caused all the issues and yes I notice u on here a lot !!!
For example, my friend was highly insulted by Hillary Clinton. She is a toxic person who is unavailable and too arrogant to make ammends to the million+ people she has insulted. So, my friend burned a Hillary doll in effigy, and mailed Hillary a picture of his cock. He feels much better now. The ball is in her court.