How do you dress to be sexy?

I always try to be sexy. But I need help right now. I can't find anything to wear that I think is totally sexy. My boyfriend told me to wear little clothes, but he might just be asking for sex. Any ideas? I hope you have some. My best friend told me to wear what she wears, but I hate being like that. If I dress up like anybody else, I feel like a dorky twin. I hope you can tell me. If you have other ideas, you can choose other. Then comment. Thanks. Signed Catfan.

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  • lc1988

    I wear tight jeans and a short shirt so my mid section can look like a muffin. it seems to be in style right now.

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    • catfan

      Cool! I love short shirts.

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    • Shackleford96

      Sarcasm! :)

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  • Faceless

    A chicken suit submerged in water.

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    • catfan

      Ew.

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  • Holding a leash and some hand cuffs wearing nothing.

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  • fairy lights draped around my naked self, twinkling and blinking

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    • Frosties

      Women who wear fairy lights are turned on at the press of a switch. Men like things to be that simple!

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      • yes and its like christmas every night :)

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  • DannyKanes

    A lime green g string and a monkey costume. Hey, I have weird lovers :/

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    • catfan

      What do you mean by weird lovers?

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  • joybird

    To be sexy, you need to choose your best feature - boobs or legs.

    If it's legs, then you should only display them! Wear heels!
    You could wear a turtle neck with a short skirt!

    If you've a great cleavage then it could be a V-neck top with trousers.

    BUT don't ever do legs AND boobs - that is just slutty!!

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    • Shackleford96

      You left out BOOTY! (unless that was included in the 'legs' part, in which case I apologize).

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      • joybird

        It has to be - you can't exactly cut out the back of your trousers to expose it though ;o)

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        • NoraBaker

          Hahaha Lol, nice ;)
          I had loved the naïveté of Shackleford96's remark from the very beginning!! Now with the cut-out-booty-cut jeans... :D

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          • catfan

            Yeah! lol

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          • Shackleford96

            I will leave it then just for you :P

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            • NoraBaker

              Why, thank you. I shall definitely wear them with my crotchless panties then. Can't wait! Don't think I've ever dressed THAT sexy. </sarcasm> lol

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      • catfan

        I think it is part of the legs.

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    • eyeofthenile

      Hey, Joybird! Great advice! And great thing to point out. Legs or boobs but never both!

      In your poll, I voted for "your own style." If this guy doesn't appreciate your own style than he doesn't really appreciate you for who you are. Part of who you are is not who you can make yourself be...(you don't want to have to act)....but it is who who you are comfortable with being. You should never be someone that makes you uncomfortable in our own skin. Or "clothes" to be literal.

      Clothes are one thing, yes, but if you take a leap like you are to wear something sexy for him, at the very least, make it your own. Try to incorporate your own style into your sexy attire. Besides, if he is already your boyfriend, odds are he likes something about you. (So why change?)

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      • eyeofthenile

        Honestly, it sounds to me like he wants a bit of a sneak preview of you. That's all. He's your boyfriend and he wants to see more of his woman.

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    • catfan

      I'm best on the boobs. Those V-neck tops and trousers sound like a good idea! Thanks.

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  • NoraBaker

    Or a burqa. Very sexy if you're naked underneath.

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    • catfan

      Cool.

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      • NoraBaker

        BTW Caftans are really sexy too... :)

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  • Certified_Boss

    completely naked, legs akimbo, with a tattoo were your pubes have been shaved saying, OPEN 24/7! Proper sexy!

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  • YourHighnezz

    Every girl should have her little black dress...

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  • Saycheese

    I like to wear cute dresses and skirts; but not too short. I never want to dress slutty. Unless... it would just be for my boyfriend in the bedroom, of course.

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    • eyeofthenile

      Yes, guys don't like sluts. But they love it when you're "their" slut.

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  • In the bedroom, it's lingerie... ;)

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    Your own style for sure, there is nothing sexier than a girl that knows who she is and rocks it. (skirts are always very sexy on a woman)

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  • Omnicol

    Wear one of his nice shirts. A button down tied at the bottom. Catching him coming home whilst in his shirt will drive him mad. Keep it on and force him to rip it off of you.

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  • purpleflower

    Flash the boys a bit of ankle under your full length dress. It will leave them begging for more.

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  • Squambly+

    I never show my mid section. I always wear clothes that excentuate my curves. That is the most classy way to be sexy. ;)

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  • blaster

    I love clothes taste in a girl , just love it and I love them looking sexy. Dressing taste mean so much to me bc it reflects herself , what she's about . Like a posh dresser is usually mostly likely a poshy nature and I won't have much in common with her, they can be pretty plastic too, hate that.
    But a girl in jeans is to me not only really sexy but probably much more down to earth , I love that . And they usually dress up when it's called for with much sexier and better taste than the posher girls anyway / without the plastic look.
    For me it doesn't have to be expensive or designer, most of my favorite dress sense in girls is pretty simple stuff. Love it when a girl might not even have that much stuff but she can still walk into her room and somehow come out looking so cool day in n out - well mostly, my crush is like that. She never seems to have much stuff but somehow she just throws somem together out of it and looks a stunner even if it's a simple stunner, so cool.
    It's funny with her , at times she's not even that pretty , but she just throws colours and stuff together and somehow comes out of it looking like a model.

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  • catfan

    I might not want to do that action, unless its just for my boyfriend.

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  • cammers

    being sexy isn't just what you wear but by the actions to use to. for example being naked under the sheet thats half way off the bed already with a messy hair style biting your bottom lip

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  • Chaz-Chick

    Go for you own stly
    my stly is still keep it sexy but different stly everyday :D

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  • HeedlessLove

    Looking sexy is less about one particular style and more about what compliments your body type the best. BUT, a very small amount of clothing isn't sexy, it just looks trashy. If you feel comfortable showing skin, just pick one area of your body to show off.

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    • catfan

      I'll give that a try.

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  • disthing

    What kind of options are they? A bunch of clothes? WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?!

    Generally the rule is wear little enough to tantalise, but enough to leave some things to his imagination (and don't get cars pulling up next to you asking you what your rates are)

    P.S. you deleted my comment?

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    • catfan

      Yes. But only because I didn't know how to explain it.

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  • Frosties

    Go classy. Most women wear jeans and a T-shirt because men actually do like that. But once in a while pull out that amazing dress that makes people's jaw drop. Every man loves the idea that his girlfriend can be Jessica Rabbit from time to time.

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    • catfan

      Sounds like a perfect idea. And when I'm Jessica Rabbit, I'll pull out this red dress without straps, and it is so cute! But when I'm not, I'll look like a girl-boy.

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  • thinkingaboutit

    well it depends on the weather. If its cool, I wear tights with a short miniskirt, the top is negligible. if I really want to impress, which I usually don't because its a pain in the ass, I throw on a pair of heeled shoes. If its summer, I wear baggy shorts that again, show a lot of leg. Probably a shirt that shows some belly too. This usually gets me just the right amount of attention without feeling like an scantily clad attention grubber.

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    • catfan

      Thanks. That sounds awesome!

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  • Depends what you mean by wanting to look sexy. If you want people tothink you're sexy as in the "I want to have sex with her right now" way, then little clothes.

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    • catfan

      Yeah. Thats what I mean. I want my boyfriend to say "I want to have sex with my sexy girlfriend."

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      • Then less clothing, or clothing that goes along with any fetishes he may have.

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        • catfan

          Cool. He loves to dress kinda like, relaxed and stuff. So I'll try to meet in the middle. Not that much clothes, but look relaxed.

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  • I take all my clothes off.

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    • catfan

      Um, I'm talking about in public, not just at home.

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      • So was i....

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        • catfan

          Okay, that is just wrong to me.

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          • Yes, thats what the police keep telling me

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