How do you keep him interested

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This could be a question for u guys as well. We've been in a relationship for over 20 yrs. I've gained some weight and wrinkles, so has he but not near as much and not really in the wrong places. He says he is still interested but we just can't seem to get that reaction from each other. Timing is way off, we go to bed he's asleep in 5 min I stay awake reading for an hour (nothing sexual). He wakes up early all handsee but I want to sleep. After a half hour or so he'll give up and get out of bed and normally go work out. During the day we just seem too busy or as he says to many 'to do's ' to mess around even if we try to make time he says there's no work up, it's just sex and 10 min later we're up and back to the routine. Any suggestions to spice it up, bring back the ravishing desire. He suggested dressing sexier, experimenting with anal, nudity, or toys. I used to be more playful but because of my weight don't really see thongs or nudity as sexual. He'll watch a chick flick with candle light with me but we just watch the movie. Help!

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  • fatok
    3 years ago

    Give him oral sex and sick a finger deep in his ass and massage his prostate. It will drive him crazy and give him the nut of his life.

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  • a-curious-bunny
    3 years ago

    Get in shape.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    3 years ago

    I appreciate the prostate suggestions but I think you're reading the question wrong. Poking his prostate may make him cum but I want him to WANT to poke me. I'm not going to poke anything if I can't get him naked in the same room with me.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    3 years ago

    Get some buttplugs and a strapon and poke his prostate.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    3 years ago

    I've lost 50 lbs a couple times then gain it right back. I agree that might help some but takes time. We used to role play, do nude beach, even anal a few times. I'm just not 20 anymore and I want sex but now I see some of these things as perverted or being sluty. On the other hand thoughts of doing some of his ideas turn me on if he forced me to do them, but he won't, I say no or give a negative response and he'll say okay and drop it. If he does push the issue I for some reason just push back more, he's even offered money as incentive for me to lose weight, wear sexier clothes, not wear underwear, but my instant response was I'm not a hooker and I shut that down. I nor he can find a way to motivate me to do these things.

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