How far would you drive for a hookup?

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I know if I'm going to date this guy, it's different, especially if I see long term potential. But this boy is pretty fine, and dang I'd like to bang him. Fuccckk, and he's into me too.

But he's 70 miles away.
Of course I find him on these stupid dating/hookup apps that field you people who are NOWHERE close to where you live... (I'm talking to you Hinge and Bumble)

But I'm actually considering it. It's an hour drive. It should be mutual too, if it happens more than once or we meet again.

I'm not really in the mood for a long distance relationship, but I am pretty desperate to talk to anyone at this point. So hence, why I'm considering this.

Obviously anyone else closer would be a good/better option.

It'd be different if I was living in a major metro city with good public transit and take the train out to see someone. But nope, gotta drive around where I'm at.

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  • kikilizzo
    1 year ago | pl

    If you are a woman he should come see you. Honestly. It's so much riskier for a woman to go to some strange mans place. I've had dates from Tinder drive wayy further than an hour to see me, and that was just for outside activities getting to know each other irl and check if there's a vibe. If he's not willing to drive an hour then heck it, he's not into you at all. An hour... that's not even long. I've hopped on the train to spontaneously visit internet friends over the day who live 3 hours away. ..

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  • jethro
    1 year ago

    I have heard that cars, trains, busses, motorcycles can go in either direction. Have them drive to you once in a while.

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  • Wow3986
    1 year ago

    Offensive to people that have been gunned down. Be more considerate.

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    • KholatKhult
      1 year ago

      That’s actually really funny

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      • Wow3986
        1 year ago

        You think people being gunned down is funny? That's not a joke. These are people's lives we are talking about.

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    • donkeykong716
      1 year ago

      What is this in reference to?

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  • LloydAsher
    1 year ago

    Apparently 50 miles. Lovingly together for 2 years

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    • normal-rebellious
      1 year ago

      Welcome aboard, I myself have pragmatic reasoning.

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    • donkeykong716
      1 year ago

      That’s great!

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  • litelander8
    1 year ago

    It would only be worth it if he was entertaining enough and providing an exciting date.

    Dudes can’t prove they’re a good lay until at least the second go.

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    • normal-rebellious
      1 year ago

      I think it's imperfectly normal what he/she/they is doing, and to meet up long distance is tracking people down, but I suppose perfect normality is the average person and labradore walking it at night, they smile and the dog smiles likewise, then someone walks home at night and you nice enough smile saying hi to them, but I suppose these crazy things can happen if one of you is a genius, then normalcy turns twisted, weird and silly and people behave in silly ways.

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      • litelander8
        1 year ago

        .. ok

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  • Bigtom155
    10 months ago

    69 miles top. No farther.

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  • Tommythecaty
    1 year ago

    I will walk across a bar at most.

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  • Kermitthehog
    1 year ago

    I wouldn't drive an hour for a fucking bar of gold. Let alone some village bicycle.

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  • kelili
    1 year ago

    Wouldn't it be safer if he comes meet you in a place you know? Anyway, let at least someone know where you are going and with whom and let him know that someone knows where you are.

    And the most I have drove for a hook up is maybe 15km.

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    • donkeykong716
      1 year ago

      totally plan to meet up somewhere public first, if not just an outright date, even if it just ends up leading to sex

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  • RoyyRogers
    1 year ago

    If you that desperate for a bone, just buy a hooker man.

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  • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet
    1 year ago

    0 miles.

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    • normal-rebellious
      1 year ago

      Hello there, normal-rebellious is back, do you want to argue your case with me, and be angry, or do you love me so much?

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  • Holzman_67
    1 year ago

    When I was young, I went long distances for them. I would regularly travel up to 50 miles to hookup.
    And 70? Yeah I would’ve done 70. Think of it as an adventure, an odyssey, a road trip, a quest even.
    I even miss that sort of thing from time to time. I like driving, I guess, which helps.

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    • normal-rebellious
      1 year ago

      Do you know that you shouldn't have to be put into such a stupid position as hooking up long distance? I'd walk 300 metres for a hookup but not take the bus 70 miles (assuming it's 140km), it's too much on a man's mind.

      Is it or is it not suspicious how these normal people make themselves look good, are perfected to the climax, alter everything to "make it normal", yet their friends and dad are calling them "not normal"? Doesn't that tell you you haven't risen to the level of neurotypical?

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