How long is to long with a shower ?

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So I'm having an issue and I think maybe I'm overreacting on it. My boyfriend doesn't take a shower everyday or even every other day. He can Waite up till a week ! The thing is he knows he smells bec he will always be like eww I stink. It's just he won't get up and take a shower. And now I'm noticing that my blankets and pillows are smelling differently. I always try to say come and take a shower with me. And his response is I'll take one in to morning! N never does!. When I first meet him some years ago he always took a shower. Now it's like never. He doesn't smell horrible but when he and I try to have sex I smell it. And I don't agree with this. How long does a guy naturally take without having a shower? Could it be bec he got comfortable with me?. I love him dearly but I just don't know how to come out and say get ur ass up and take a shower !

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Azaman

7 years ago

I go a couple days without showering sometimes and that feels like too long to me. I'm also not in a relationship, if I was I'd be showering more often.

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- Ellenna
  
  7 years ago
  
  I'm the same: wipes are a great invention as long as they're not flushed down the toilet!
  
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  - IMissMary
    
    7 years ago
    
    Do you always talk to yourself?
    
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    - Ellenna
      
      7 years ago
      
      Occasionally in real life, but not in IIN if that's what you mean
      
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ʇɐq_ɐ_ɯı_ןoן

7 years ago

ʎʞuıʇs sı sıuǝd sıɥ ʇɐɥʇ ɯıɥ llǝʇ

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Aryas

7 years ago

It's a man thing. I got used to it a while ago, and now I actually enjoy a good amount of manly musk. Maybe get him to clean himself with a wet towel if it's really too much for you.

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Nichole2016

7 years ago

Idk I just don't want to be rude about it . It's like he wants me to go down I always tell him take a shower and I will. Never does so I guess no bj for him. It's just aggravating knowing he used to and now he's not even trying to

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Ellenna

7 years ago

He's a lazy slob who's taking you for granted after some years together.

If you can't tell him he smells what sort of relationship are you in? You could at least ask him why he doesn't shower often any more, or just keep saying "I want you to take a shower first" whenever he wants to have sex with you.

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Mytwin295

7 years ago

Why is this even a question?! No shower no sex, if he still dosent do it, dump him.

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MrsEdGein

7 years ago

When I was going through a bad patch of depression I didn't shower for two weeks.

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BlackyHancock

7 years ago

You know what to do. No shower. No sex.

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IMissMary

7 years ago

Ten minutes

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HalfInsaneFemale

7 years ago

it bothers me when questions like these arent polls

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sunshinemoonlight

7 years ago

usually I shower after every two days, and I never smell.

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donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

7 years ago

till the hot water runs out

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- VenomBurn
  
  7 years ago
  
  I do the same...hotel showers are the best, 2 hour long showers sometimes haha.
  
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DuHast

7 years ago

24-48 hours is high alert, then 48-72 hours is code yellow, after that code red.

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